by Sassafrass on November 28th, 2007

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I told a girl that she is perfect to me and she is having a hard time dealing with it. I want to know what this means. Is there something I could do to help her understand that it's not a bad thing to be told you're amazing?

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by Mistaspot on January 17th, 2008
I dont know about everyone else but i know when my bf tells me i'm perfect. it feels like i can't mess up or do something silly cause i dont want to let him down. the pressure of messing up is not the greatess but it is still nice to hear compliments just don't over whelm her. when i told my bf how it made me feel he asked me to think of something about him that i didn't like and when i couldn't he said see what i mean. it made me realise his point of view. and let me just say no one sees me as inconfident. it's just the pressure of being perfect that i didn't like.
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by Tempter on November 28th, 2007
being told your amazing is great. However there is a lot of pressure in being perfect, and no one is truly perfect anyhow.
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- Thank you for being the first person to not tell me that she's crazy. I already know she isn't mean or psychotic. I'm glad you offered me advice rather than telling me to move on.
  
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- I try and help. good luck
  
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by JoBa11 on January 15th, 2008
The problem is, that though you believe she is perfect - she most probably feels like she needs to realise this herself. The more and more you keep telling her she is, the most likely she is going to feel frustrated as she can not quite see it. An idea would be, to lessen the complimenting her part, but by telling her she is stunning and beautiful when she has painted her nails, or bought new clothes. Then she is on the journey to seeing what you see.
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by Simply msFortunate on November 28th, 2007
No. People like that have such low self-esteem that it's impossible to get anywhere with them. This is something that she will need to figure out on her own, and it may take a while. Before she believes what others tell her, she has to first believe on her own that she is wonderful. In the meantime, don't take it personally. You did nothing wrong.
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