I commented on a question yesterday about gay marriage and read all the comments and was just wonderin' what you guys thought about people who say they are bisexual...do you think it's more accepted for girls than guys? have you ever considered it?
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I think its way more acceptable for girls but then I'm a guy :)
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I think it's definitely more acceptable for girls. While it's my experience that most girls are almost as homophobic about lesbians/bisexual girls as most guys are about gay/bisexual guys, I think guys are more accepting of their girlfriend also liking girls, than girls are of their boyfriend also liking guys. I experienced this first hand. My mom has no problem with me being bi, and often has joked about how I'm a catch for most guys because of it, but when I told her a guy I was dating was bi, she immediately said "Oh, well he's probably just gay and doesn't want to admit it. Boys aren't usually bi."
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bisexuality to me is about being able to fall in love with either a male or female. genatalia is not what love is about. yes I have considered it, experimented in it, I AM bisexual. society probably does accept it more of women than men, though I do not know why. its grossly hypocritical.
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i attend a school that is FULL OF lesbians or bisexual girls.. but not so many gay men.. im not against gays because i believe LOVE IS LOVE.. it has NOTHING to do with gender.. but here the gay guys just "DISGUST" people... but it seems to be that its all okay for gay females.. hmmm.
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Not sure who it is more accepted by. I considered it while developing my sexual identity in late adolescence hun.
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Well, I consider myself as a bi-sexual person, but that doesn't mean I can fall in love with a guy, it's pure a sexual thing, I like cock too. But....only my wife knows that...and the other guys I sucked... :-)
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i think its the same
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Being bisexual, I often see the way people change once they learn about my sexuality. They can be sweet and charming and suddenly turn viper-like; others tend to be more awkward, doing their best not to offend me, because I suddenly don't fall into any category they can clearly define. Occasionally, I'll meet amazing people who understand that my sexuality doesn't define who I am. I don't choose to be bisexual - it's not something I just woke up thinking "Hmmm, maybe I'll date a girl today." - it just comes with the territory of being me. I think it's more accepted for women, even though I think judging someone on who they love is bullshit - how we love is far more important.
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Well, I am bisexual. It is something I rarely mention on AB or even in 'real life'. People tend to only find out after I bring up in passing an ex-girlfriend, or answer a question like this, for instance. One of the reasons I keep it fairly quiet or don't choose to openly label myself is because people seem to have just as many crazy assumptions about bisexual people as they do gay people. They think we just like sex and don't care which form it comes in, or we are all cheats or promiscuous etc etc. Its all bollocks. I have seen that attitudes seem to be that if a guy says he is bisexual he is confused and is actually gay, whereas a girl is confused and is probably straight. In terms of acceptance I think bisexual women are maybe accepted as much as lesbians can be, and bisexual men are accepted as much (or little) as gay men... there does seem to be a different standard applied to men and women in both respects.
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From a personal perspective, a persons sexuality is of little consequence to me. I am equally happy with people being Bi as I am them being straight or gay, as a Liberal everyone's welcome to my party! That being said I think most men find Bi females easier to accept than male, probably because most blokes are a bit pervy. I cant say I've ever considered it, to date I've not found men sexually attractive but I make a point to 'never say never'.
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accepted...hell no , we Bisexuals of both sexes are equally looked down apon by most straights/gays/lesbians people in this world.
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I don't think people are any more accepting of it than they are of gays. I am a guy, and maybe that is just my perception of things. For girls I think guys may even encourage it. It's strange, isn't it? I played around with guys at one time, and it was fun, but I have always been cautious about being too promiscuous.
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I like both pussy and penis. I could give a damn what anybody thinks. But I don't have very many relationships because I take my sexuality, time and energy very seriously. I don't call myself bisexual and because of that decide it's okay to prance around like a slut and kiss as many girls as I can. I take love and relationships very seriously and I don't invest time in anyone intimately unless I see something serious or know that this person will hopefully forever be in my life even if we end up just being friends. I know that I have a good head on my shoulders and great instincts. If people feel the opposite just because of my sexuality then f*ck em.
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i know for me and my friends we think that bisexuals are nasty just to be honest. I think that they are very confused and i think guys are more accepting to it because they like the fact that they might be able to have a three some. I have never considered being bisexual simply because im not confused.
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