Recent break up with a girl I love (2yrs). Problem is i have issues surrounding trusting (im divorced) and around how my child will be affected if i let her into our lives more. I want to, but i dont know how to change. advice? advice for gf too? fixable?
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I know how you feel. I like to think that when the right one comes along there wont be any questions or concerns. Your just protecting yourself from getting hurt again
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i say give it a try but put your kid first no matter what.
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well id say put ur kids first but its up to you good luck
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the way your daughter will relate to men the rest of her life is in your hands. she will observe your relationship with the gf, as she is the object of great attention from you. be a good dad. you owe her that. help her to be confident, strong, independent, and happy with herself-not hinging on outside stimuli. no dramas(trust)-no accusations...just love and respect. she will make you one proud daddy. if you are really good maybe she will take care of you in your old age! if your gf is unable to love you for being the best dad you can be-ta ta for now to her.
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its been a little while now. I cant seem to get my ex off of my mind. i still love her, still want to be with her. my child loves her and always asking for her to come over. i dont know how to be enuf for the both of them while protecting myself from getting hurt again and i really want to have her in my life i am just really scared. it causes me to hold back and not give her the relationship she needs too and thats not fair. but like i said i cant seem to let her go either.
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Your child is very important. But your happiness is more important because if you are not happy, your child will catch the vibes of this and I am sure you don't want an unhappy child.
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I would suggest counseling for both of you to work out any problems. It sounds like you really care about one another. Give it a try. I do hope it works out for you both!
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