Guys: Do you like it when girls call you every night, when you're just seeing them, or do you like it when they call maybe once or twice a week? I see calling every night as psychotic, am I wrong?
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ANSWERS: 11
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The more the better. It never bothered me when I had a s/o anyway. It depends on the boundaries that you may have setup for each other, but whoever paid attention to boundaries when you are in love.
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Never bothered me, If she wanted to be together than she should call. I allways dated the ones that liked to check-in and showed interest, If I could'nt talk I would say so and if she was ok with it she even more points for respect.
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A girl calling you every night is not necessarily psychotic. My girlfriend calls me regularly, and we text one another near as damnit every day. On the other hand, my Dad phones my Mum every day, as he is working on the other side of the world. Would you describe that as psychotic? I would, as he's giving all us other men a bad name! lol
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I'd rather her call every night rather than once a week it show me she is serious about the relationship and really interested....If she calls once or twice a week I usually just end up moving on after a couple of weeks
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I don't think it's psychotic at all. I like when a guy that I'm seeing takes time out of his day to see how I'm doing. It shows that he cares and thinks of me when I'm not around. I'd be wary of a guy who only calls once a week to ask me if I want to get together... those guys usually only have one thing on their mind, and it isn't dinner if you know what I mean.
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all it means is she misses you a lot!.
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If a girl is going to call me and talk for hours...then she should just C'mon over. Not on Sunday though.....She can't compete with the NFL.
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i hate the phone,so don't call me.let me call you.since spring of '82 i can't stand the sound of a phone.everytime it rings,i causes me to jump.
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One time my ex left 21 messages on my voice mail in one day. And that's not communication. That's an assault. When I have a gf, talking to her on the phone once a night is fine for me. I'm not a fan of the phone but, to just check in with someone who you are in a relationship with is just natural.
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It varies from person to person, but it never bothered me. In fact, I thought it was pretty nice that the girl wanted to hear from me every day and wasn't afraid to show it by being the one to call every day. You can't really label it as "psychotic" behavior without considering what motivates it and what is said. Just bgecause you're not comfortable with it doesn't make it obsessive or unstable behavior.
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depends. it might seem like you're a bit clingy. all depends on the guy tbh.
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