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  • Sure, your partner can talk about whatever they want with their friends. If you are uncomfortable with that, however, you should say something. Just be like, "Honey, I know you love to talk to your friends about our sex life, but I just don't feel comfortable knowing that your friends know more about than I do." If your partner refuses to do this, saying you have no right to tell them who they can talk and what they can talk about, then you might want to think about how you feel about them not respecting your wishes about private, intimate matters.
  • I think this is something that varies a lot- many people would say that sex is a private matter between you and your partner, and that its disrespectful to talk (or especially brag) about it, some people are more relaxed, and as long as they aren't ridiculed in any way, don't have any objection to it- some people even quite like the idea that relative strangers are thinking about their intimate sexual details. Most people fall somewhere in between the two- they don't mind someone talking about sex with them as long as no names are mentioned; or don't mind the discussion of the act as long as no personal details (e.g. penis size) are mentioned. A lot of people think its ok to share the details about a fling or one night stand, but not a long term partner (Although personally I think the latter smacks of double standards a little - even a one-nighter has feelings) I generally find when I talk about sex with my friends, we avoid naming names where possible, other than perhaps a "So-and-so was really good fun."- as it limits the chances that a drunken comment might backfire. It really is a matter for each individual couple, you should probably ask your partner how they feel about it before you start going into all the gory details with your friends- its worth considering that if you'd be uncomfortable someone saying something about you, you probably shouldn't say it about anyone else. I think ultimately the best advice is "If in doubt, don't" It doesn't do you any harm to keep your mouth shut once in a while.
  • Only with permission. If neither of you care, then talk away. Discuss it first. If only some things are OK, be sure to disscuss CLEARLY what the boundries are. If one person does not like the idea of it being discussed with other people, then that perserson should respect the other enough not to talk about it.
  • I don't think so. The act of making love with your mate is private and personal. You should let him know you feel this way. Then if he doesn't stop, don't have sex with him anymore. HEHEHE
  • not right but I think all husbands do,, I know mine does, but then again I have discussed ours with some of my girlfriends,,,not all of it lol

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