it sounds like your curious so i think you should ask her, you might be bi and is just now feeling that way. i think you should explore it and see how it turns out.

I say if you are attracted to her yeah go for it. If I were attracted to a girl I would, I never have been but I am just saying lifes to short give it a shot. It might end up the best thing you ever did.

Honest and very normal question and issue. The culture and our language are confused aboiut ;"love," The Greek has three wrods; agape which is un-conditional love, there's nothing in it for me, such as God has for the beleiver. Eros is selfish, 'erotic' in the sense that I am 'using" you. Philia is the love we have for friends, family. None of these stages is clear-cut in the Human Situation and we can alternate from one to the other, should grow out of the eros stage in marriage etc. FEELINGS are neither right nor wrong, how we act on them or curb them is a matter of emotional maturity and is what life is all about. The popular culture unfortunately adds to the confusion, sexual activity is seen as purely personal, neutral morally and so it is not easy to sort out the HUMAN from the RAW feelings and the tendency we have to act and think that"it is all about ME." I hope this helps you with guidelines to be very honest and thorough with your friend. You can love her propely, have 'feelings' for her, fantasize about her gewnitally, be confused at times, and she you, that is normal. Hanlding it takes discipline, honesty, wisdom, lots of time and patience and can enrich you. Wish you well, BJ

tell her how you are feeling...perhaps she can help you sort it out..If she is a lesbian she will understand a lot more about these issues..Just bear in mind that just because she told you that she is gay...doesn't mean that she is necessarily attracted to you:)

Perhaps you will feel different after some "-o-ther" experience.

You certainly have The Mealer's permission

My sister who was married twice and had 3 kids started working as a waitress after her 2nd divorce. She started talking/being friends with one of the cooks who she later found out was gay. Their friendship turned into more and they eventually got married in Massachusettes. This lasted for about 5 years until they split. Now my sis is back with her 2nd husband. She said she was so confused and upset about the divorce that she wasn't thinking clearly. She said she was comforted by her ex partner and really needed her as a friend more than a sex partner.

You can tell her how you have been feeling but it doesn't mean she will be interested in you sexually. She may just want to be friends, you may not actually be her type.

I think you should explore your feelings. You will always wonder if she could have been more to you if you don't. Falling in love with your best friend is a beautiful thing. It happened to me. I never had a relationship with another woman before I fell in love with my partner. Now, I cannot imagine my life without her. I will never regret not letting my "straight-ness" get in the way of the best relationship I have ever had.

yes you should other wise the not-knowing will drive you insane. You should just tell her you like her and you want to told her tight and from there you will know what to do

Be clear that you're not sure if you're committed to the lifestyle, but very attracted to her and see where it goes. Life is a trip, and you need to figure out which road you want to follow. You don't want to regret not taking the chance. You might not like it at all, and you may not be her type, but you don't know if you don't try.

Make love to her and make a video of it so that we can tell you what you did wrong on your first time.

The same thing happened to me, literally. My best friend is a lesbian and two years ago she told me that she liked me. I thought I was straight. You should explore your feelings, definitely. If you don't you'll always wonder about what could have been. One thing I would be careful of, though, is to try and preserve your friendship if things don't work out. No matter what, you don't want to lose a friend over something like this.

If youve never experienced something like this then maybe you should. Growing up is all about learning and exploring. I would be open to this experience, who knows, girls just might please you more than boys. Maybe the best way to approach the situation is explain your feelings and where you stand, tell her that you're not sure if this is what you want but that you are attracted to her... if she feels like experiencing something with you, regardless of the results, then go for it. Either way, be considerate of her feelings as well as yours.

theres nothing wrong with the way you feel. my first Lesbian experience was with mybestfriend. Talk to her about it and see how she feels about you having feelings for her.

you should wait to see if it's a passing interest because of changing circumstances. friends' lifestyle changes can be mind-opening experiences. certainly being exposed to someone close to you who's going through this can make you think about your own sexuality. that's natural. i would wait to see if they're real feelings for HER, or a curiosity that you've stumbled upon, and she happens to be the one close to you, the one making you think. then talk to her for sure.

I would go for it... what will it hurt??? Just tell her you want to see where it go see what happens!!! If its nothing then its nothing and you can continue being friends!!! And if you like it then great... enjoy your self!!!