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  • I'm guessing you come from a part of the world where arranged marriages exist. I'm sure even though this is the case you can find a mate who understands your situation. Now on the other hand if you're feeling guilty about not being a virgin and "saving yourself" till marriage, you are going to have to think about it yourself. Is virginity before marriage that important? I mean it's just a piece of flesh (excuse the rather graphic portrayal of virginity), do you think something like that should stand between you and your mate? It's up to you to think about it. Good luck and don't worry too much. ;)
  • Don't worry so much about it. Chances are, he won't be a virgin, either! I figure that if he loves you enough to marry you, your past will stay where it belongs, in the past!
  • Don't marry a man who doesn't accept you as you are. It will only bring you pain, trying to live up to his expectations.
  • Don't feel too bad. I'm 22, smart, funny, nice and still not married, lol.
  • Any man who can only accept you on the basis of your virginity is a man I would avoid at all costs. Being single would be paradise compared to the hell of being with such a man. Very sincerely.
  • You are still young! Get an education (not to get a job, but for the knowledge). An education will also provide opportunity and a place where you can meet a lot of people. A lot of my friends got married by 25 and most of them are not happy. Don't rush. Take your time to know yourself. At 20 your not even close. I am 27 and I have learned that I am not even close. Most women and men by 20 are not virgins and if a man will not accept you because of this, then he is not husband material. Statistically, the average age for women to loose their virginity is 16 or 17 and men 14 or 15.
  • It all kinda depends how far removed you are from being a virgin. A one time experience with a guy who lied to get you in the sack would leave you fairly virtuous and worthy of a white lie. If you are now expert in the Kama Sutra your choices are fairly limited. Then, you may just have to find a guy who will better appreciate your carnal knowledge.

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