ANSWERS: 4
  • This is a tough question. If she loves you she would not have allowed someone else to touch her in any context. People have needs, but she could have taken care of them herself. Trust is one of the most important factors in making a relationship work. However, her admitting it to you shows honesty and remorse, this is a good sign. You both need to have a talk and re-evaluate your relationship. Find out why she did this and if she is defensive, she might not be the one for you. Mabey give the relationship a break, meet some new people. But you need to address this issue. It is possible to make it work, but you need to decide if that is what you really want. Breaking up is hard, but time heals all wounds, trust me. It isn't a question of if they had sex or not, this is still cheating. Talk about how it makes you feel, and how it makes her feel.Also talk about how you feel about each other. If she doesn't feel the same way as you do about her, its best to end it now.
  • Not enough information. What happened that lead her to do this? What lead up to it?
  • DUMP her. and i know it's hard when you love someone.. trust me.. i've been through it all before.. but it's better to find someone else and move on then to stay with someone who cheated on you while you had your back turned.. and yes i know it may be hard to forget about her.. but go out with some friends and find someone else.. im sure there is someone else out there who is better for you. TRUST ME. hope i could help. good luck. :]
  • She may not have had penetrative sex with him (intercourse) but if he touched her, she was intimate with him and this is still sex. There is nothing you can do - what's done is done but be realistic. Are her actions those of a devoted GF? I think not and I think you already know that.

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