wow shemale porn, that would be a strange situation,I don't know how I would handle it either but good luck.

well, you could put a strap on rubber cock and fuck him after he sucks on it, and/or watch some shemale flicks with him, and let him fuck you in the ass while you're wearing a rubber cock. worked for us, and our sex has never been better ! nothing to be afraid of. better than him going out lookin for it and bringing home std's

It would freak me out as well. I would want to talk to him about it but I wouldn't trust much of what he says if he has been hiding this. I hope he hasn't been engaging in risky behaviors and living a secret life. I think you better talk it out and let us know what happens!

There's no need to freak out. It is generally straight men who enjoy watching shemale porn. These actors are often portrayed in both dominant and submissive sexual roles with their male counterparts. This genre tends to blur gender roles allowing men to fantasize and more fully explore their sexuality. FYI, many straight men enjoy anal stimulation and fantasize their wives giving them this pleasure. I'd encourage you to openly and lovingly discuss the subject with you husband.

He's turned on to the fact of being fucked, hes not gay but see tranny as some what pretty that have dicks that he can fantasize about being fucked, you should give him a blow job and gently stick a finger in his ass and see how turned on he gets....trust me!

I'm sorry sweetie, but to be honest if your husband is into shemale porn he is gay/bisexual,,may man live double lives they go on to have kids and wives but deep inside they are unhappy, You will never satisfy them and guys that give you that answer of he is straight are just in denial or trying to push you to believe their subjective reality which is a reality that is to their but the truth is he is being turn on by shemales and by shemales by a penis. last I recalled the definition of straight meant heterosexual sex not same sex even if the shemale has breast she still has her man part. I know it might be hard by this also happened to me with one of my boyfriend..I know a husband is a different connection but why be with someone that is not straight. question if a guy suck off or perform oral on a shemale penis or get penetrated why is that different than a guy that peform oral on a regular guy and get penetrated they both did the same act ,, they both sucked a penis and got penetrated by one just becaused one is a shemale the sexual act has not changed just the illusion.

Hi My husband watches shemale porn online and on 1 dvd that he purchased. When I found out 2 months ago that he was watching it I freaked out as well. Now my only advice to you is to sit down and talk to him about why he watches it, and what he gets out of it. Ask him is it just a fantasy for him, or does he want to live in it? To me I just think its something that a straight man shouldnt be doing. But when I asked my husband those questions. He said that he watches it because it shouldnt be and its not normal, and the abnormalty of it turns him on while watching it, and he would never actually be with a shemale, and hes absolutely not gay. So Im just going to leave it at that... Im going to continue to live my life, Im going to trust what he said because hes my husband and we love and trust each other. Ive actually watched it with him recently, it was horrible at first but it makes me feel a little better about it. But just because he watches it I dont think he's gay. For example: A gay man watching straight porn; is he really straight? NO And I know someone gay at work who does... And I also know another gay friend at work who thinks that anything with a man on it is disgusting... So its different for everyone. Just talk to your husband, and if that and all else fails, and If you dont trust what he says... Go with your instincts.... I hope Ive been some help to you.

buy a strapon and have some fun with hubby

Stoplying, get a grip and grow up. Your fixation with labeling sexuality is typical ... and really uninformed ... but that is neither here nor there. The REAL questions are about THEIR MARRIAGE. Do you love him? Does he love you? Did you know he watches porn without you? Do you watch porn without him? Have you talked about your sexualities with each other? My point is that the fact the porn has she-males in it is really secondary to whether you two communicate. Way too many married people cause stress by not being honest and communicative with each other about sexuality -- which is the one place we all REALLY need to be able to laugh at ourselves, be playful, and explore the freaky from time to time. The suggestions here to TALK to him, to find out whether this is fantasy or more, are excellent ... but you also need to evaluate yourself here. Is it the porn you're objecting to, or the type of porn? If you're okay with him sexually fantasizing to porn (and presumably getting turned on, or maturbating), and he makes it clear it's only fantasy, why freak? The answer is to talk, talk, talk! Don't assume your gut reaction means you're right ... just as you don't assume his first answer is right. WORK IT OUT!

You handle it like any other penis..but the added benefit is 'it' has tits!

Basically the reaction to this type of thing can have many causes. Doctors are currently researching further into this "dilema" and for the most part, the answers consistently come back to one thing; Regressive Psychological Trauma. Most (95% of) men who watch and enjoy transsexual pornography identify as straight, the remaining 5 fill other categories. And of those 95% almost all of them had a traumatic sexual experience at a young age. This is their way of, subconciously, oking their past attack within themselves. Because most men will NOT come forward about being sexually assaulted, their behavior comes out in different ways. Sometimes they can become hostile, even violent. In other cases they tend to lean more heavily towards sexual fetishes. The biggest problem is, both cases are severely stigmatised by both the Church and the rest of mainstream society, as well. Your husband watches porn, not much you can do about it. And yes, some of it is weird, just be thankful its not Biastophilia, Coprophilia, or Hebephilia, as all three are illegal in the Western world. Open the lines of communication, and yes he may deny it. Thats the way it goes, if he is comfortable enough, he'll talk. I've coached alot of couples through issues, especially sexual issues, and as xmodal said "The answer is to talk, talk, talk!" Thanks for braving through this post, I'll check back every now and again if there are any replies or questions.

I used to sell porn online. The weirder the videos, the better they sold. I think I sold 3 "tranny" videos to every "straight" one. The transsexual/transgender fetish is extremely common, and is not necessarily an indicator of marital dissatisfaction or sexual aversion. It's generally just curiosity. I would be far more concerned if the OP had discovered 100% gay porn, but even then it's nothing that open communication can't solve.

I think he is probably at least bi, if not gay. I do not buy that straight men can find "shemales", or more correctly "dudes with boobs" sexually arousing. In the EXACT same breath that a gay man is not attracted to female features....a truly straight man is NOT attracted to male features (penis) on a woman. I dont think it is at all unusual for a straight male to like anal play, there is a highly sensitive prostate there. But, straight men have their ladies strap on....and if they are straight that is exactly the porn they like...women with strap ons doing straight men. Straight men dont mind seeing penis in porn....when it is attached to a male that is putting it into a vagina. The whole, "bored with normal porn" also doesnt hold a candle.......there is soooooooo much freaky, wierd, fettish things out there that still involve vagina that I dont buy that argument for a second. So, where does this leave him?? It leaves him in an area of denial. A "shemale" is the perfect stepping stone for someone not ready to openly admit they are bi or gay. May be because of societal pressure, pressure from family, etc. But in the end, straight men do NOT find males with boobs sexually arousing.

To those who suggest the wife embracing her husband's shemale porn fetish, have you ever considered how she would be made to feel by doing so? Just as there is no accounting for what turns the man on, the woman should not be blamed in anyway what turns her off! Anyway, in reality, I guess most women find it hard to tolerate such fetish and the society view it as unhealthy addiction.

i too just found out that my husband is into shemale porn,i would not have mind it,if it wasn't for the fact that he never wants to have sex with me,now i think i know the reason,he doesn't want to talk about it and shuts me up saying that it was a phase,but things havent changed.i don't know what to do.is my marriage done for?

It's okay to me let him do him.

a lot of times is something new so some man might be slightly atracted but at the same disgusted...i think its something that needs to be talked about,maybe counseling,i just dont see if you have a woman why trade that for a penis....