ANSWERS: 12
  • You can make ANY day special, it doesn't have to be a holiday! You've been together plenty of time to ask her, there's not really a set amount of time anyway. If you'd like to do it at Christmas, then go for it! Good luck!
  • My Goodness, what are you waiting for ?! get too it man ! Christmas or earlier ! )Love is so hard to find , especialy when its mutual, and friend ship needs to go with that too. ) best of luck and be healthy, wealthy, HAPPY and live a long "happily ever after" life.
  • Both are so romantic. Is one date more special in any way than the other for the two of you?
  • Ask her before Christmas she will be expecting it at Christmas or Valentines Day. Good Luck!
  • Why not ask her to marry you tonight and then plan the wedding for Christmas time next year.
  • What is more important is about you. Are you ready to accept the responsibilities of a spouse? Have you picked a ring? Have you both met each other's family? Where do you plan to live? How do you both feel about children? money?
  • I agree with others about not doing it on Christmas. If you are ready to do it, you are ready, don't wait till next year or longer. If you want the engagement date, I would suggest Christmas eve or on Christmas but long after all the presents are opened and things are winding down, she'll never expect it. OR on New years eve, stroke of midnight! She'll be over the possibility of getting a ring for christmas and onto other things. Good Luck!!
  • Why Wait? You are both sure - so go for it!!
  • I know you love her and finding love is a very beautiful thing but I suggest you ask her to marry after Christmas when all the hype is out of the way. Remember this is a special day you two will share for the rest of your married lives and you want it to be about the both of you. Not Santa's and presents and Christmas trees, but about you and the one true girl you love.
  • If you married her around Christmas, you could have a wedding on Feb 14. Or you should be original and you could do it on a completely different day.
  • Christmas is perfect!
  • At least your on the ball!!! good for you for seeing what you want and showing how much you value her!!!! Good luck and best wishes whenever you ask!!!!!!!.... wow...

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