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I'm sorry mate, I know that hurts. The best advice I can give is don't rush into anything just to "prove a point", just lick you wounds, take yor time, you will meet that special someone in time :-)
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Focus your mind with your favorite positive things i.e. other friends, family members, church, books, magazines, etc.. Only time will heal..
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I know how you feel. Just take your time, and as much as you need, and focus on yourself and what you need, don't worry about other people. Take care of yourself.
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Was she leading you on or anything or did you just really like her all that time? Either way, I believe that you should take up something new to take your mind off it. I went through a breakup in January, and found this site right here, by googling "mental abuse" (eh...) and it's kind of helping me through. New stuff is fun, I believe. Esp if it takes your mind of things you'd rather not think about...
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Find a new person. Find good qualities about this new person that the other girl do not have. She may be funnier than her, she may be more physically attractive than her. Try not to think about what happened between you and the girl. Take the hurt off by focusing on a new goal which can be getting a new girl or getting As on your report card. It has to be something positive, no drugs or drinking at all. I know a lot of people who resort to this after they get emotionally hurt from a ruined relationship. It takes some time but you will get there. Good luck.
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