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  • She also has a boyfriend who is in college who I think is abusive as she doesn't have fabulous judgement. She also smokes or is around people who smoke a whole lot as she semells really strong of smoke. I am starting to even suspect she's on drugs. I feel a very special, uncomparible, different connection with her. Can you give me some advice taking consideration of the following events (breaking up with boyfriend).
  • I think you should forget about her.... I am 25, but I have 17 year old cousins... who are very normal cute girls and they would never like a 13 year old (no offense). Get a girl your own age.. i think you will be happier.
  • I definitely think you should talk to her. If she respects you as her own flesh and blood, she would definitely give you a say in what she does in her life. And if she tells you it's none of your business, ask her, "If you're part of my life, how is it none of my business?" And above all, don't let her try to make you feel guilty. My parents have done that to me a couple times, and I totally broke down. I'm you're age, and my mom has had a couple instances of bad boyfriends, and I've told her a couple times that I don't like this person, and he's always ended up hurting or breaking up with her.
  • I think the age difference is too big. I'm 13 too and I wouldn't think a almost adult would be interested in me! Because soon, she will be allowed to do things you can't, which could get you or her in trouble, if you get my drift. Best of luck to you!
  • I know your not, you know how I know? Cuz you are 13. It's okay to play this out and learn. But this is far from love. Love is not the beginning where you are all happy every second, that is just the passion part. You need to even know what you want to grow up to be before you can have a serious partner. This guy is probably going to be long gone after a few months. Hoepfully.

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