Do you sometimes want to just slap whiney-babies who think they have it so bad? I'm tired of people being so sorry for themselves! There are people in this world who have life threatening diseases who have the courage to smile, so so can you!
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Of course there are people that have it worse, but that doesn't mean everyone else should pretend nothing is ever wrong. We ALL have struggles and emotional challenges in life. Many of the people that post personal things on here do so because they don't feel enough support from the people in their 'real' lives. They are reaching out, and there is nothing wrong with that for most of them. I realize there are some that will complain about anything and everything 'cuz they don't know how to be happy, and don't want to try (I think my mother-in-law would complain if she won the lottery) ... but the one's that really need the support shouldn't be made to feel unwelcome because of those few.
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youre right!!! but every once in a while...everyone deserves to bitch
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Putting up with second best for fear of copping third or fourth best isn't clever. It's cheating! But yeah, sometimes you're right.
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No, it's perception. People have to grow outside of themselves before they can appreciate the pain of others. The people you describe are children.
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Cuppycake you are right as far as there are many in the world with far greater problems than some who complain here about theirs (myself included) Thanks for the reality check. I'll try harder not to complain so much about my little insignificant problems in the future since I am now aware that it annoys people like you. Sorry to have burdened you with hyaving to read about them.
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Cuppycake you are right as far as there are many in the world with far greater problems than some who complain here about theirs (myself included) Thanks for the reality check. I'll try harder not to complain so much about my little insignificant problems in the future since I am now aware that it annoys people like you. Sorry to have burdened you and others like you with having to read about them.
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No I think life brings many different circumstances to people and sometimes it's not hard to feel overwhelmed by a situation you feel you have no control over. Whilst I applaud the courage and fighting spirit of those you mention - not everyone is blessed with the ability to feel so positive in the face of adversity. What is real pain to you may be of no concern to them and vice versa. It does not mean they do not appreciate what they have or that they don't try to feel positive and move on from the situation that causes them to feel so down. It just means they are human and they have feelings and they are having a difficult time in coping with them. A dying person can smile but that doesn't mean a living person can't cry.
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No. What's worse is people who are constantly saying "You don't have it that bad. Why are you so upset?" Pain is about perception, and is very relative. Just because I may not have a terminal illness does not mean I shouldn't feel bad for say, my three and a half year long relationship ending. Both pains are very real.
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So if you get struck blind, it would not upset you in the least, because there are other people out there who have cancer? So you are saying that if you get raped, you would not shed a tear, or be traumatized about it at all, because there are women with abusive husbands who have to deal with rape every day? Your question may on the surface seem to be scolding people for lacking empathy, but in reality it shows you lack empathy for the people you scold.
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Awesome!!! :):):):):):):):) Yes!!!! :D *!!!*+++++*
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I have a friend whose whole conversations are about complaining about something. It brings me down sometimes and I rarely hear anything positive from her. I try and get her to see the positive side to what the whining is about...although Id really like to 'slap' her out of her negativity at times. I just think its in someones character to be whiny...I really dont think they realise it. They probably havent had to go through huge life challenges...and the fact that they forgot their umbrella and got wet can ruin their whole day can be a big deal to them...crazy as it is...we just have to secretly roll our eyes and sigh!
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Okay, then! Somebody got up on the wrong side of the bed today
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you know I tried slapping a whiney baby one time...the diaper fell off and shit went everywhere! NOT a good idea...lol..but yes...I get your question and some people just need to whine and complain or they have nothing to say...
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what's the point.
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