Do you believe that forgiving someone who has seriously wronged you is the only way to find closure?
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Yes, the bitterness and need for revenge eats away at you, forgive and most of all forget for your own peace of mind.
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You can forgive, but you can do so without letting the person back into your life. If you cannot forgive, try to 'let go' of your emotional attachment to the person by letting them know that you once cared for them, but that you no longer feel the relationship is a healthy one.
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oh yes forgiving and forgetting is the best thing one can do.it helps one to move forward in life peacefully .
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No.. forgiving is entirely different to forgetting.
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well in the true meaning of the word yes. When you forgive someone it means you also forget and give up your right to seek revenge. If you can't do that then you haven't truly forgiven the person.
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Definately.Sometimes it is easier said than done.
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no, but beating the hell out of them seems to help some.
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If you can't file a case in court against that someone, but you still feel wronged, then the only way to find closure is to forgive.
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Yes, but the hard part is to mean it. Until you can acknowledge the hurt/pain/anger of this persons actions, realize why (or that you will never know why) they did it and come to terms with what happened you have not truly forgiven them. This does not happen instantaneously, forgiveness is a process - at least for me it is. This also doesn't mean you have to forget the actions but it is hard to forgive when you relive the experience each time it's thought about. It's the raw emotion involved you have to forget. This will bring you closure and peace with the situation/person. Remember, this doesn't mean you have to turn the other cheek... unless that is your belief.
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Depends on what they did....me i can hold a grudge to the fullest...still hate bff for sleeping with my boyfriend....that happen 5yrs ago! Not mad at her(anymore) but I never let her forget!
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