Have you ever NOT wanted to be in a relationship? (it seems everyone always does...)
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Indigo- in the library with the revolver
ANSWERS: 12
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Over the summer I was pretty content with being alone, which was weird because that was the first time in a long time. But now I'm back to wanting someone.
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Yes. I grew up not wanting to get married. I had been in a few relationships that went nowhere. But out of random dumb luck, I met the woman that has been my wife for years (13 1/2). I grew up just wanting to be alone. Here I am!
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I have not wanted a relationship for many years> I have no problem being alone!!!!!!!!!!!
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I have not wanted a relationship since losing my sweetie almost 3 years ago so it is not true that everyone wants a relationship. I know one of these days I will be ready for one again. In the meantime though I am pretty satisfied being where I am at.
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When I'm with someone I can't stand but like them so much, I wish I was single but I'm not. When I'm single, I hate being lonely. It's a terrible feeling. I look at everyone else and wish that I had someone who loved me.
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Seeing, as I have not really been single since I was 13, I cannot really say that I have not wanted to be in one. Or at least not at an age where you know that you want a relationship. (Mind you that one had lasted for 3 years, and I am in the one year and going one now so it's not like I dated non stop 30 people).
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Most definitely. Breaking up with someone can be so liberating and freeing. But then being lonely can be well, lonely. after the first three week hump being single really isn't so bad. You get to flirt guilt free ^_^ and not worry about what your partner would want/say/think.
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Most definitely. Breaking up with someone can be so liberating and freeing. But then being lonely can be well, lonely. after the first three week hump being single really isn't so bad. You get to flirt guilt free ^_^ and not worry about what your partner would want/say/think.
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Hi Indigo- Yes. Before dating my spouse I had it with relationships and wanted only to see someone who I might be married to and nothing less. This turned those lovely Bostonian women's heads...one even called me a "rare duck". I stuck to my guns (well, almost) and 1 1/2 miles away lived my future spouse and we eventually met!
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Yes, when I went through my 3rd divorce last year, I took a well earned break! But, now I miss the togetherness a bit, so I'm very casually "looking"...maybe. :)
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No, can't say that I have specifically tried to stay out of a relationship. If I'm single, I'm single, I don't worry about finding someone or a relationship. Yes, I'm one of those people that don't worry about finding other people if I want to head off to a movie or restaurant, either. =)
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There was a time I didn't want a relationship, but now that I'm recently out of a good one, I know that in my heart that is what I want and what I need. You have to be strong enough to stand on your own two feet, but it's always nice to know there is someone to catch you if you fall.
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