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  • yep its possible..just hang in there.. good luck..
  • it could be possible. But he must love one more than the other one, so there you should make him choose.
  • Yes it is. In my case I'm in love with an amazing woman, kind, beautiful, I think about her every day. All I want to do is hold her & protect her, she makes me want to be a better man. Before meeting her I wasn't particularly romantic or soppy but now I know there is such a thing as a soul mate. The difficulty comes in that I'm about to marry a completely different woman..... she is also very special, intelligent (far more than me), strong, also beautiful, a truely amazing person. What I'm getting at is that you can be happily with someone for years, making plans for a future, all the thing we're meant to do. But if you meet the one person who your meant to be with you fall in love, its as simple as that. The actual problem is what you do about it. In my case, while I can think of no thing in the world that could make me happier than being with her, I'm going to get married & hope that the feelings I have will go away.... There's simply no way I could put my fiance through that.
  • sure,if you give your love out that freely,personally i find it hard to love just one person let alone many
  • For a man it can be possible bt for a woman its impossible to equally love both at the same time!
  • Tried that. It doesn't work. Got divorced.
  • possible, but unlikely and inadvisable
  • Yes, because there are different ways of loving someone. When you have been with someone for a long time, and know them completely, they are family to you. When they hurt, you hurt. They mean as much to you as your flesh and blood - they are enmeshed in your life and your whole being. But falling in love is different. Falling in love is a chemical reaction, desire, headiness. You can fall in love with someone when you live with someone else, or when you deeply care about someone else. It doesn't mean you should act on it (although you can, as long as you choose one or the other), and eventually those feelings will go away. Falling in love is a kind of madness. What you have to ask yourself is, do you actually love the person you are in love with? Do you even know them? Or are you just 'in love' which is not the same thing as loving someone?
  • Of course its possible, but like butter the more you spread it around the thinner it gets. Its generally not advisable if you don't want the girl your living with to go crazy on you. Most of us really don't like sharing However its funny that you said living with, not in love with. If this is about you then move on. Your just wasting her time. The man of her dreams could be around the corner.
  • The best thing to do is realize that you either have a crush on this other woman and the only reason you are in love with her is because she is a fantasy woman. Because we all know there ain't no woman alive who can compete with a man's fantasy women. Subsequently if you are trying to get a man to fall in love with you the easiest way is to go on a 10 day trip to Ireland and not call him until after you get home off the plane. First you say you are living with a woman...but not married to her. Is it possible you have commitment issues? Of course eventually most people get married but you aren't married to the woman you are living with. So I would say yes it is possible to be in love with someone else and live with another person. But eventually you have to be honest and take a hard look at how dishonest you are being to the person you live with. She probably thinks you are going to get married. Most of the people we fall in love with outside our relationships are unobtainable anyways. So yes it is possible...most of the time when this happens it is just something you aren't facing within yourself or a void you are trying to fill....and usually just a crush that with time will fade away.
  • Probably possible but......a HUGE boatload of drama in the transition.....Good luck wit' Dat'
  • Yes it is possible but the heart break for the woman he lives withs will stick with her for years to come if she loves him and only him.
  • Yes... VERY possible... you know men....LOL
  • love is like the flu, try as hard as you like to avoid it but eventually it will get you, doesn't matter if you already have a cold or not.
  • Anything is possible for falling in love. Trust me on that.
  • It is possible, but living already with a women who may love you and you loving another will hurt her. Also determine if you really love this other women before you hurt the women you are living with.
  • He's not "falling in love" with anyone. That is a load of crap, an invention of Hollywood. What he's doing is lusting after someone. He doesn't LOVE this woman or the one he's with. If he loved her he would never do that to her. That's not love. "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. 12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. 13And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love." (1 Corinthians 13)

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