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You are the one who knows her so you are the only one who can make that decision to hold on or let go. If you do "hold on" bringing up the past would be a bad idea. GL:)
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I would say not. It is difficult to go back in a relationship (from serious to casual). Best to move forward, focus on the healing, and making a new life for yourself.
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Let me put it this way - and with the greatest of respect - but you are so unsure of what YOU are feeling, let alone what she is, that you are asking an anonymous panel of unknown people what you should do based on the extremely limited information provided..... My honest opinion is that you need to give yourself some time to focus on your needs before taking on hers. I do wish you every good fortune.
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Well your a better man then me. If a woman did this to me, I would refuse to have any sort of conversation with her much less date her again. Find out what she really wants. Sounds like a succubus to me!
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Ditto to justme.... Forge a new life for yourself. Make friends. Have fun. Enjoy work. Life is not about your pain. When you are content as an individual, you may not find your Pseudo-wife as interesting. Personal experience speaks.
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Bad idea. It sounds like you are being manipulated. Ditch her. You can do better. You deserve better. Anyone can tell you that they love you and then rock your world in the sack. Doesn't mean a damn thing. What matters is how she acts when things aren't good.
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Stop letting her use you. She wants you out of convenience - not love. She knows that you will always be there and it taking advantage of you. Tell her that she's had more than enough opportunities to "date" you and now you're moving on.
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