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  • Legally your dad can't prevent you from seeing the guy once you are 18. Until then, either try to change his mind or tell him you're dating a 15 year old.
  • I have dated my share of older men and when I was 18 i was dating a 28 year old.BUT I was also moved out on my own.You might wanna consider where this is going.are you really going to be with him 2 years from now ?probably not. Also dating a man with children that are not yours is very difficult especially @ 18. Been there done that! Also if you wanna chat further just let me know :)
  • Honestly, I would recommend against it. You are only 18 and haven't experienced enough of life yet to start dating an instant family. In addition, if you do start dating this guy and you break up later on, the child might become attached to you and that might be very hard on the child. I think your dad is seeing the bigger picture and you might want to take a step back and look at everything that is involved. If you do decide to go ahead and date this guy, you might want to not meet the child for a while incase something does go wrong he doesn't get hurt.
  • You're 18. Have a life before you commit to life, you'll only regret it if you don't. He just wants someone to rear his kids. You're a mug if you go ahead with this, a total loser.
  • listen to your dad.
  • Do it up! Its your life he treaets ya right and you dont mind a kid then go for it! ya learn from your own mistakes
  • Ummm.... I would ask myself why would a 26 yr. old with life experience want an 18yr. old. And this guy is a father? What a useless piece of garbage, especially if he knows how your dad feels.
  • If you trust your instincts,follow your heart. Love doesn't often fit into conventional wisdom.
  • I'm 18 and I was seeing a 24 year old... Thankfully it did not work out. If he already has a girl though... I'm not sure. Good luck.
  • Well, I don't think dating him is all that harmful. But you should at least keep your dad in the picture and let him know you respect his opinion. He cannot live your life for you. Don't get too serious too fast and make sure you date others and that should put his mind to rest a bit. If he keeps objecting, human nature will cause you to want the guy even more.
  • listen to your dad!! my sister did the same.....she is 38 now and wished she would of listened to me....she was good for the 2 yr. old but the rest was a nightmare.......she did not know 'who he really was' til she married him.....but he wooed her good and was very 'respectful' while he did it.....he is evil.....he just got out of prison for molesting his daughter.... young girls fall for this , but they have no experience in life yet......a ready made family is not a 'fairytale'....especially dealing with bio mom's these days.....you are way too young......
  • What's going on with you younguns these days??? Why are you young women SO intent on hooking up with guys SO much older than you?!?!? Is there a shortage of guys in your OWN age group or something? You are not even LEGAL, yet, so how is it that the two of you even got together already?? Slow down, take your time.
  • Almost doesn't cut it, the fact is, you're only 17, and believe me, no matter how wordly you think you are, you ain't experienced nuthin yet. This creep is 9 years older than you, when you were 11 he was 20 for Pete's sake, there's something lacking in him, otherwise he'd be seeking someone of similar maturity. He's looking for a dumb broad, a chick stupid enough to raise his child, cook his meals, wash his clothes, and clean his house. Let him clean up his own mess, or at least find a woman old enough to fully understand what she's getting herself in for. The moment you shack up with him, life as you know it will be gone, over, finished. Hey but you're young, you know it all, so go ahead, but always remember, most of the people have warned you not to, so we all reserve the right to say "WE TOLD YOU SO" lol. Forget him, go out with your appropriately aged friends, have a life, because every adult will tell you, life is way too short to mess it up. Don't be a fool for a person who has already messed up three lives, his, his ex's and the child's. Do you really want to be next?
  • when u are btween the ages of 14 and 20 u change all the time, so go ahead date him, just don't go and Marry him, u'll regret it.
  • Do yourself a favor, Get a different guy who has no kids, Because you will be better off starting fresh in family. I know many people will treat you with respect, there is more that goes along with the package. respect is not all that. there is honesty, and I can go on and on. You need to get parenting list to see what is needed in the daddy child family. because of the other posts, i do 100% agree with the fact that it can be devestating on a child.

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