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  • Sounds like you need to see your doctor and find out what your next steps are. Sore, tender breasts and fatigue are signs of early pregnancy. Sorry to say this, but you have some big decisions to make at a very young age.
  • I think that you are probably fine..but maybe you should get real medical advice..not AB.
  • What's going on? you're pregnant. that stuff happens when you're pregnant...and more, so get ready.
  • Sounds normal to me. Quit worrying, that's not good for you or the baby. Go to a good doctor, get your vitamins and relax.
  • See a Physician. Have you told your family and the father? Are you ok?
  • sounds normal to me. i am pregnant and have had the same thing, and the baby is as healthy and as normal as ever. dont worry, just see your dr ever month.
  • sounds all normal to me. Make sure you are taking iron and folic acid, and see your health professional regularly. You are quite young for this. You need the support of your family. I hope you have it. All the best.
  • A lot of people have said this already, but see a doctor about this. You're only 16. You're still in high school. I'm going to be brutally honest - get an abortion, you don't need this. Sex is great fun, but you have to understand what condoms are and how important they are if properly applied.
  • It sounds pretty normal, but if you have any doubt in your mind, trust your instincts and have a doctor check you out and put your mind to rest once and for all! good luck!
  • If you want to continue going to school normally and finish out college get an abortion. A baby and full time school is just too much on someone. Go on the pill if you want to have sex. Yes it feel better without condoms, yada yada, ya, but if your not williing to use them go on the pill.
  • get an abortion. You made a stupid mistake-don't ruin your life over it. If you follow that advice, follow the next advice too. Have as much sex as you like, but go on the pill AND make the guy wear a condom EVERY time. That way you'll never have the abortion dilemma again.
  • im 16 to and about 3 weeks pregnant....i think ur gonna be fine
  • the girl is asking about the lack of symptoms and her breasts, not whether or not she should keep this baby. i do think that you should see your doctor for all information and options. look after your health and that of the unborn child. good luck you need all the support you can get be under no illusion whatever you decide is going to be extremly hard.
  • YEP THAT SOUNDS NORMAL, I DIDNT HAVE ANY SYMPTOMS AT ALL FOR THE FIRST 12 WEEKS ALTHOUGH I KNEW. BUT PLEASE SEE A DOCTOR IF YOU ARE WORRIED - AND GOOG LUCK WHAT EVER YOU DECIDE TO DO
  • Rest assured, the little bugger is still there. You're too young to have a baby but I'll spare you the grief as, at this point, I could lecture you all day but tonight you'll STILL be pregnant. Everything sounds normal to me but the ladies here could do a much better job explaining things (besides the now unnecssary "Birds and the bees" story).
  • Your pregnant its still there i had these syptoms and they wont go away till around the 4th month.. unlike everyone else im not going to tell you what to do who are we to do that. This girls is asking a specific question and that question was not should i keep it or not!
  • Honey; please go see the doctor. Even if there is nothing wrong; you need to be monitored during pregnancy! Good luck and God Bless
  • It sound like a normal preganacy...don't worry some people don't get the nausa or any other symptom(lucky people) You should be getting checked out by a doc or nurse every month at your stage. Sleep as much as you can...you will need it when the baby comes!!! Good luck!! Let me know how your doing, my hearts goes out to you
  • Ok first, your nipples will more then likly be sore for a while, eventually you will get so used to it, it will not bother you. 2nd I am sure your baby is ok but yes like so many other people have said you need to go see a DR. It might be scary at first but it is the best thing for you and the baby. If there is anything wrong, which I doubt, they can monitor. I will keep you in my prayers. Not all women have symptoms. I was the unlucky one and was sick the whole time until the baby came out. I had her six weeks early.
  • Your OB/GYN will have all the answers to this question. I too had extremely sore nipples. That's what made me take a pregnancy test to begin with. I didn't start throwing up until about 9 weeks into my pregnancy. I was 6 weeks along when my pregnancy was confirmed. I also didn't throw up in the morning. I got sick at 7 pm every night like clockwork, and I'd wake up at 2 or 3 am and puke. I remember being so tired, it's all I wanted to do. Make sure you get plenty of rest, take you pre-natal vitamins and eat as much as you can. Try 5 little meals a day. That will keep your energy up, keep you and your baby well nourished, and decrease nausea. Because an empty stomach creates acid and that will make you sick. You just have the sore nipples now, but the rest is coming, don't you worry. That baby's in there!!
  • that's def normal, symptoms are fatigueness, sore breasts, you go to the bathroom about twice as much, it's okay, your body is just getting used to the new hormones.....
  • when the symptoms stop abrubtly that means your gonna misscarry (most likely) because once the babies gone they stop i had an abortion the next day bam was totally normal no soreness no puking nadda ... when you feel totally normal again and all syptoms are gone just like that than worry about seeking out your doc...
  • Honey just take a deep breath, becoming a mother will leave you with all types of worries. More than likely your baby is fine. You should really think about contacting your doctor and get an ultrasound just for peace of mind. I wish you all the best of luck and just take pregnancy and motherhood one day at a time.
  • Umm, the question isnt is it still there the question is how far a long are you. Those are normal things that happen when you get pregnant and the boobs will get bigger and you will sleep a lot more and possibly eat more. The nipple thing isn't going to get better because they are getting ready to produce milk. You need to go see a doctor and find out how far you are.
  • can all the people saying the best solution is abortion please take a step back? yes it is one solution, but maybe this lady is ready for a baby? some teenagers make excellent parents, and some middle-aged women are terrible! your next step is to see your doctor, confirm the pregnancy with him/her and arrange to start regularly seeing a midwife if you want to continue the pregnancy, or get referred to a family planning centre if you don't. I'd also advise telling you parents sooner rather than later if you decide to keep the baby; partly because it gives them longer to adjust to the idea, but mainly because your mom will be your best source of advice and comfort - remember, she had a baby before! sore nipples and tiredness are perfectly normal, by the way. Just because you haven't had any other symptoms does not mean anything is wrong with your baby, or with you - it just means you have been extremely lucky! Pregnancy is different for every woman; some spend 9 months throwing up and feeling like hell, others feel the healthiest they have in their lives. whatever you decide to do, start relying on your doctor or midwife, not internet forums! i agree the anonymity is great, but pregnancies are hard to keep secret for very long! good luck to you, and i'd be interested to hear what you decide to do.
  • Yes honey the baby is still there. Your tired because you body is adjusting to doing for 2 what it use to do for one.
  • yeh and you both are fine at first you dont even feel pregnant until a while trust me you'll know he/she is ok when you hear the heartbeat in the doctors office so you need to set up an appointment to go and see a doctor he/she will assure you that everything is fine and they will help you estimate how far along you are according to your last period after you get your first ultrasoud they will be able to tell more acurately how old the baby is and your due date after about 5 or 6 months you'll know if its a boy or a girl and around that time you will never worry again about if your baby is ok because you will feel him/her move everyday its crazy just a few weeks ago i started to feel my baby kick and move around well good luck with everything and i wish you the best
  • ahh man you got yourself in a world of hurtin'. i hope you have a supportive family. your symptoms are pretty natural i wouldnt be concerned but i hope you've talked to a doctor bout this because you gota start learning now, ya know? also, it may be hard to tell your family, but once they are done being pissed off they gona try to do what they can for ya! keep your chin up and do what is right and everything should turn out fine!
  • Honey, I know you are scared but having a baby is a very natural thing, it's what started this world and it will happen until the end of time. However, you need to get to a Dr. PRONTO!!! The first trimester is the absolute most critical one..you need your vitamins, rest and support from someone!! Don't listen to these people suggesting and almost demanding you get an abortion, most of them wouldn't know "hard life" anyway. No doubt, it will change your life drastically but so would having an abortion...bottomline, you need to speak with someone that will allow YOU to make the decision and not DEMAND you do as they suggest because they are the know all be all of life!! Knowledge is power and either decision will affect you for the rest of your life...having the child will definitely have mostly positive but you have to do what is best for you!! I had a child at 17 and then my last at 21, I didn't have "Mommy and Daddy" supporting me...it was very very difficult..very...however, my children are now 23 and 19 and I couldn't be more proud!! Do go seek out a Dr. pronto and tell someone (in person) that you can trust will help you along the path you choose!!
  • Well my name is mz. sweet and i am 17 yrs old...I dont have no kids but my 15 yr old best friend does...from my point of view I think the baby is still there..
  • everything sounds normal for a pregnancy but the best thing to do is go to a doctor routinely for check ups and make sure you take your prenatal vitamins and if your iron gets low iron supplements...
  • If it really worries you go so your dr. but i would say your fine. sore nipples/boobs and being tired are not only early signs of pregnancy but part of the whole 9 months plus plenty of other fun things. but your fine sweetie. if you start getting bad cramps and spotting see your dr right away. mamma to a baby boy due feb 11
  • FALCOOOOOONNNNNNN PUUUUNNNNNNCCCCCHHHHH!
  • yeesh no offense but if you're gonna go fool around and get pregger use some common sense and go to a doctor, get checkups and read a book or two and get informed. Being tired and having sore nipples is natural. If you don't know this much how are you gonna care for and raise a child?! It's time to stop being a kid and start preparing to be an adult, playtime is over, you are a mother now, be accountable and responsible.
  • SOAR NIPPLES AND BEING TIRED ARE DEF SIGNS YOUR PREGNANT. GO TO THE DOCTOR AND MAKE SURE EVERYTHING IS OK.. WHICH IM SURE THEY ARE..
  • WHO DID YOU HAVE SEX WITH IS HE SINGLE ?
  • Wait, does your mom know? That's the ABSOLUTE HARDEST THING!!!! Telling your parents. I know considering I'm 16 and pregnant to. You be aware of morning sickness too. IT SUCKS!!! Sincerely, Cinnamon
  • Yes, I'm sure you're fine. Not everyone has tons of symptoms, my best friend is pregnant and the same age and the only symptom, at least that she's let on is being really tired. You're just one of the lucky ones...for now at least. If you're really worried go for a checkup at the doctors, you should be going often now that you have a baby inside you. Best luck to you.
  • Yes, you and the baby are fine.Your nipples are only sore because milk is forming in your breast, that's what causes your breast to be sore. But you two are ok
  • Probably fine. But if you're pregnant, you should be going to the doctor. Not everybody gets morning sickness and all that stuff.
  • Check with the doctor to know for sure. Anything else is a guess!;)
  • YOU WILL BE TIRED YOUR BODY IS GROWING A BABY ITS A BIG JOB.
  • I think you're perfectly fine. You are, or I'm guessing since you just found out, early in your pregnancy. My best friend got pregnant, and for awhile those were her only symptoms. Now she is 6 months and getting bigger and she has pains in her ribs. Enjoy the little symptoms while you can.
  • every prgnancy is different and you might only have a few mild symptoms,be thankful, some people have every symptom in the book. i had 2 babies and they were completly opposite prgnancys. i preffered my second.
  • How did you determine that you are pregnant? It sounds like you are acting on a hunch. You should probably start by talking to your parents, an older sibling, or another trusted adult. However if you do not want to tell anyone til you are sure go purchase an over the counter pregnancy test. I recommend the Clear Blue Easy digital pregnancy test. These tests can be purchased at any local drugstore. They are extremely easy to read. They spell it out for you...Pregnant or Not Pregnant. You don't have to look for one line or two lines. If you are in fact pregnant you need to see a doctor as soon as possible. Your health and the baby's health depend on it. Being that you are o young remember that you have options. 1. Keep the baby 2. Give the baby up for adoption 3. Abortion Consider these things carefully. Unfortunately there is no easy way out of this. No matter what you choose you are making a decision that will affect the rest of your life. Choose wisely.
  • i got pregnant when i was 19 but it sounds like the normal symptoms to me.... I dont blame you about the abortion not being an option its just wrong i think....
  • Ok, you messed around, and now you're knocked up... Time for a BIG lesson in responsibility, starting NOW. You MUST get to a doctor immediately because you need to get certain vitamins (and other things) or your baby can have birth defects, and your health can be damaged as well. Get going! Now!
  • you didnt use protection? If you really feel you may be with child, talk to a school nurse, ASAP. If you are not able to talk to your parents, is there a family member you feel close to? The absolute most important thing is for you to find someone you feel safe enough with so you can spill your guts. You have to tell who, when and what are your plans now. Do NOT delay. Your health as well as your unborn child's is your priority now. Best of luck to you
  • Blondieblue, do you know how many weeks along you are? Sore Nipples are usually later in pregnancy. As for Morning sickness etc you may or may not get that at all, and some people dont get Cravings etc. I got Evening sickness with a couple of my pregnancys, My advise to you if your worried would be to get your Doctor to check you out and maybe get a Ultrasound scan, you can have a scan as early as 6 weeks if your worried, the baby will just about be big enough to see. Or the Midwife could listen to your bump with a Doppler that picks up baby's heart beat. I'm not sure what the situation is in the States with paying for Medical Care ... we get free checkups and 2 Scans on the NHS in the UK. I dont think you should worry till you've seen a professional. Easier said than done I know :) But we always worry about our pregnancy even if its fine just cause we're at a very hormonal time. Hope everything works out for you. Dont worry about being a young mum, I was 17 when I had my eldest, people that Diss you are not worth knowing. As long as you love your baby, children are a Gift from God.
  • That's very normal to experience at your age,you sound like you're going to be a beautiful mother and I hope he has a lovely father, good-luck with your baby and family, yours silencer, Reuben.
  • u better go to the doc to get prenantal car fof that baby..cuz u pregnant and go to te Wic office you also qualify for pregnancy medoicaid.

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