My bf's x-gf is very close 2 his mother; and when my boyfriend changed his number because of his x, his mother gave out the new # to her. In addition, I do not feel that his mother has given me a fair chance to get to know her. How do I deal w/ it?
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Mischa
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The only way you can. Time. You are gonna have to show her that you love her son, and that you will be better for him. DO NOT bad-mouth the ex, or try to replace her! In time, hopefully their bond will weaken some and his Mom will grow closer to you.
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There's really nothing you can do. I find that when someone doesn't like me or isn't really familar with me, I give them their space. I don't try to force a relationship where one is not wanted or forthcoming, and eventually the other person will come around on their own time.
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That's a toughie. It is not very easy trying to get the approval of your partners parents. I know. I was there. My sweetie's father hated me. Mostly because he viewed my religion as a cult and thought I was going to brainwash his daughter into joining the different Jesus worshipping cult. I think our age difference was a factor too but not as much as the religion. I tried my best to be his friend and assured him I was in no way interested in converting his daughter but I was not going to refuse to answer questions if she had any. He never really came around and I finally accepted that his approval was not necessary for me to love her. She loved me and I loved her and that's all that mattered to both of us. Try to be as nice to her as you possibly can. Go out of your way to be pleasant to her. If she can' t accept the fact your boyfriend loves you that is her issue not yours.
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u tell his mother shove it up her ass and tell ur bf to grow some balls it will make u feel good on the inside :D...guys are ass holes :D
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