How do i tell this girl im sorry, after i hurt her feelings, and now she wont even listen to me, or let me talk to her. please i love this girl, and i cant let her go.
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ANSWERS: 12
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Give her a few days before you try to talk to her then tell her exactly how sorry you are.
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She needs some time and space.Talk to her in a few days, thought pressure.Just explain yourself clearly.Hope everything's going to be fine
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Give her time to cool off - the more you are persistent and agressive the more she'll be angry with you.. There'll be a time to talk things out, be patient.. Unless you really hurt her feelings so bad then you have to...
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Give her a couple days and surprise her with a gift. Dont say please or anything cause they'll wont even hear it. "Nothing more fierce than a woman scorned" is how it goes i believe
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Give her some space. If you keep on trying to talk when she doesnt want it she will close off more and for longer. Back right off for a bit, and then try, say after a week.
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Write her an old-fashioned letter. not an email, not a text message, but a hand-written letter. Why? Emails and text messages can be erased and forgotten forever. A piece of paper can be read over and over again and is something you can hold in your hands. Yeah, this is old timey, but it still works as good as ever. Don't write it, if you don't mean it!
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Once you hurt a girl, is real hard to just fix it with a im sorry. Give her time, prove to her that she really is the girl you want to be with. A girls feelings is a very delicate thing, and when they get hurt it almost impossible to fix, but if she loves you as much as you love her, love will over come!
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Give her............her space. Give her gentle persistence. Write her a long letter and mail it to her.........This is'nt in your hands anymore so hang in there. Anonymous was right...no e-mail or text messages. They're not personal enough. Do the letter the old fashion way.........
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Tell her da you'll never hurt her feelings again if u can't let her go and if you think it'll get worse tell her how it's gonna affect you if you let her go, just basically show her that u want her, no one else.
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Give it time. Some people never get over it and yes you could have ended it by doing what you did. Making too many attempts could also be counter productive. Write her a letter and tell her how you feel and that you will give her time. When and if she is ready to talk tell her you are there waiting for her. Then just go about your life and move on. If she really loves you she'll come around. Be warned, women forgive but they never forget, even petty trivial things can eat at them for years. You might not even be aware of it and 20 years later they will bring it up, you'll find out they have been holding it in emotionally all those years. That's why communication is important. Get things out in the open and talk about it, work it out.
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Write her a letter. Include a quote or poetry. Do something creative and thoughtful. Be persistent and go beyond if you were wrong. If you do all you can do and she will still not forgive you, then it ceases to be your fault as everyone deserves another chance when they are truly sorry, in my opinion.
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Write a letter without sounding desparate. Include in the letter that you made a mistake as everyone does and you know yours didn't make sense to do, however, you are crazy about her and by your last attempt of writing her, you understand if she'd rather not contact you anymore, although you hope to hear from her.
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