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She needs to stop playing games. You gotta get down to the point and tell her what you want out of "this" relationship and if she can't do that, then you're gone. life is too short, don't waste time.
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let it go. let her figure it out, and you let it rest. you will be better off once she really figures out what "she" really wants without dragging you through the muck!
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Saying that she doesn't know how to end it because there's "nothing wrong to go on" sounds like a lame excuse, seeing how she wants to be with you. Having desire for someone else in itself is something "wrong." Unless she is talking about something being "wrong" with her boyfriend, as a person. In that case, it doesn't matter how great of a person her boyfriend is, something doesn't have to be "wrong" with him for her to leave. People can break up just because they aren't feeling it anymore. And they can definitely break up if someone wants to be with someone else. Tell her to just openly tell him what's going on and end it with him, or forget her and move on, because mature people who are worth being in a relationship with (who also have respect for you) wouldn't even have to think twice about all this.
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Wow, this is a two year old post! Well, I'm in the same spot my man! The ex is back, she loves me, but living with a guy that has nothing wrong with him ... so it's a mess. I would love to have her back, but do I want to put the other guy through that? What would the fallout be, would she be regretting leaving him and coming back to me? Would she be doing minute by minute second guessing and comparision analysis if we get back together ... hmmm ... sometimes the most complicated things are the best ones to engage for the challenge, but the ones to avoid the most for the frustration and angst! Decisions ... Decisions!!
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