ANSWERS: 25
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I think tell him to use his own hand and you will yours! Sounds like he has a problem, he is either very selfish and just does not care about you or something happened to him when he was yound and he is simply scared. If it is the first one then tbh you will be better off without him, if it is the second one then you need to tackle the situation very delicatly! Just remember that any kind of sex should be mutualy satisfying! He should satisfy you too.
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He sounds completely selfish and I believe this could be grounds for annulment.
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How long have you been married? One would think you might have known this already? Why has this become an issue NOW?
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I think your husband is full of beans. For him to tell you about "all the women he has been with" is sort of disgraceful. Are you actually telling us that before you married him and all through your marriage so far however long that has been, he has never penetrated you vaginally? If this is true, you both need to go to a certified sex therapist. My man keeps telling me that he wants to give me oral and then he never does it. I hop in the shower right before bed and make sure my coochie is fresh and clean and it doesn't happen. I wish he wouldn't tell me what he wants to do... I wish he would just do it.
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Perhaps you could arrange to get him remarried to a vaccuum cleaner.
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Tell him that if he can't give you what you need and want that you will go find someone that can because like him you also have needs
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I know a couple like this; it's very strange. Our personal thoughts are that he's either 1) emotionally retarded and stuck in puberty or 2) gay. There are strong arguments for both. If you're not happy in your relationship, you both need to sit down and talk. A marriage counselor might be able to shed light on this problem. Good luck.
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This is weird; is he Gay or Bi?
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I think they have any number of sex toys for that, and since you're his wife and not just "any womam" he's being with then he could respect the fact that you have needs too.
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Didn't u know this before marriage? Get out of this mess.
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I think hes selfish,I cant believe this topic never came "up" bef.
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Your husband's got some serious issues. Try to get him to a psychiatrist or a sexual thearopist; some professional because he seems to need help which he should've got many years ago. He may have had som incident in his past; perhaps as a child that warped him this way.
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I agree that's unusual. I can understand that he may have problems with emotional intimacy, but sex doesn't really require emotional intimacy...performing oral on you or manually stimulating you or having intercourse with you do not need emotion from him. There could be deeper issues here, see a couples therapist!
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Apartently you must be good at it, try bitting a few times...
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It's time to get rid of him honey. You deserve much better. I'm a guy and everyman I know loves to touch and please a woman. It's part of being human. Either get him some counselling or ditch him. You can do better!
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yep can realte have one like that, I just lost all interest in sex, till he discovers another way to be intimate;I dont advise living that stupid could be a nice guy, but in some cases you have to love them regardless, and work on the intimacy in your over all relationship out of bed, first, thats what I am doing.
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I think he is a selfish lover who needs to be trained to serve his wifes needs. If not, dump him and find someone who desires nothing more than pleasing you orally!
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get rid of that selfish bastard just because he has always been this way doesnt make it right
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Didnt you know this before you married him or the better question is why ddid you marry him? YOU deserve better bebe
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Why do u still with him for? File for a divorce tomorrow b4 you'll ruin yourself emotionally.
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Sweetheart, I went through the same thing with my husband, no matter how much I talked to him about it, it never changed. When I slowed down, this only made him angry. Once we would make up he would fall in line for only a moment, then back to the same thing. Once I put my foot down about it, I was served with papers. Maybe that's all you need. A DIVORCE. I was always told that a man who only wants you to have oral or anal sex has homosexual tendencies.
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THINK YOU MAY NEED TO STOP THAT, AND LEARN TO KNOW EACHOTHER BY KISSING AND CUDDLING! WITHOUT THE KISS I DONT THINK YOU CAN MAKE LOVE! WORK THROUGH IT SLOWELY, MAY TAKE SOME TIME AND EVENTUALLY YOU'LL LEARN EACHOTHER! YOU DONT HAVE TO HAVE ORAL EVERYTIME! GOOD LUCK!
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Handle your problem with carefully and first of all you must have to tell your husband about your desire and after that you must have to be consult a sexologist to your husband for best therapy.. Hope you get best solution from a sex therapist
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He might want to be a cuckold...
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I am so glad I am not the only one with this issue. I thought I was alone and I kept telling myself it was me, but I see that it's not.
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