No. I dont know where you meet women, but when I was single, I never had a problem finding a willing partner.

I have a sex drive! LOL And I DO think about sex!And in my eyes sex is important too but it IS NOT everything. Some women are just different and I know that for me there are certain times off the month where I want sex more than often. Good luck

Ok, where do you find these women? Cos me, and all my female friends, have sex drives. Some of us too much for our partners. No, its not true. Women like sex

maybe you should try discussing something other than sex. talking about sex too often can make you come across as desperate...and there is no bigger turnoff than desperation.

A lot of women out there were raised to think its WRONG to think, talk, or have sex... so to openly discuss it with someone not close to them is difficult and/or impossible. I was sort of raised that way, but have no problems whatsoever. LOL its too enjoyable.

it can't be. i only want sex from a relationship and NOT love or romance :)

Nah i can't think that'd be true - you just didn't meet us ab babes yet :))

Are you cruising for women in a senior center? Seems to me you need to try some new venues. Remember that not all women are ready for sex on the first date. Some women like to get to know you and may even want a bit of a relationship.

No, not for all women yet I would suggest that you look at body type. Med to thin women seem to have a better sex drive then larger frame women. Also check for a full moon, alot women are in heat around that time of orbit. GOOD Luck!

That's odd. I have trouble finding men who don't eventually say, "Oh, come ON- I'm tired!!" or "Do we HAVE to do it again right this second?" If what you're after is *casual* sex, that might be the problem (although it wouldn't be were I single and you were talking to *me*), but plenty of women in committed relationships that I know of (me included) actually outpace our significant others on a regular basis. So if I were you I'd look for a decent relationship- and the sex will most likely take care of itself. ^_^

Maybe you're coming across as TOO interested in sex, which can be a turn-off to many women. I am very sexual, but if I feel like that's all a guy wants, I lose my interest very quickly. All women have sexual desires, and smart men know how to cater to them.

every woman wants sex the people that told you that are either lyin or just weird sex is a big part of a relationship, so yeh love and romance are good but you defo need sex. theyre talkin rubbish if you ask me

Perhaps the women you know are scared of catching diseases from promiscuous sex and that is why they are trying to emphasize romance and relationship first? I say keep looking. Particularly for women in their "prime". There are plenty of women with sex drives out there. The women you described do not represent all women.

I have had conversations with some of my guys friends about the subject but nothing physical. On the other hand, I am worse than my husband sometimes about it but I wasn't like this when we first met. Alot of women have a sex drive but most are scared if you try to jump on them the first time you meet them.

Women have very strong sex drives. But they are not like men. They heat up slower and stay hot longer. Men manage to reach love through sex. Women reach sex through love. It is true that women are hung up on the love and romance because that is where their sexuality lies. If you want a really HOT woman, treat her with love and let her know that you cherish her. Odds are hugely in your favor for having the sex life you dream of.

No, that is no seriously true. Well, maybe for *some* of them, but I doubt you have discovered a colony of women with no sex drive. Perhaps you are approaching the whole sex talk thing in the wrong way?

I say HELLS NO it ain't true!!! Every woman I've been with wants sex right away or by the second date. And if I don't give it to them, they go crazy and act like they're possessed by the sex demon or somethin'. What those women are doing is feeding you a bunch of bull. Always remember, women want it more than us men, they are just very subtle about it.

Nope :)

It is true. Most women care far less about sex than mend do. It is what nature intended. Of course all of us are individuals but a large majority of men and a small minority of women have high sex drives (if only I could meet them).

not true ... girls love sex as much as you guys do. its just girls dont talk about it unless they really do know the guy and they can trust em.

nope, women who are loved and treated well have sex drives that go through the roof. My husbnad has to reject sex several times per week. BUT, he is very kind and loving toward me. Respectful and respectable...that could be the difference.

I have to agree with just about everyone who commented here. My ex (of 14 yrs) was a self-proclaimed sex addict. It was such a turn off to be seen only as a sex object, seriously, not saying im a victorias secret model, just to always be asked "wanna do it" was a HUGH turn off. Alway touchin himself and stuff..no foreplay no nuthin! Well, my boyfriend now, is all into foreplay and vocalizing what he likes, but, is NEVER pushy and NEVER makes me feel as if thats all he wants..AND HE'S 8 YRS YOUNGER THEN ME!! Im 38, he's 30..lol, go figure.

Not true . I am very sexual and I talk about sex with my fiance all the time but I also want the love and romance in my relationship too . Not just sex . Maybe you seem like you're only interested in sex to them so they avoid the whole subject . Maybe they're trying to tell you that they want love and romance also . You don't want a girl who is only interested in sex . Chances are , you won't be happy with her emotionally or mentally . She might also be one of those girls who sleeps with everybody she sees . Give it time .

If you want a woman with only a sex drive, pick up a young chic. But then, you might only get sex all your life and remain a bachelor. Is that what you want? If not, you have to compromise.

Welcome to my world. But I'm a woman.

Sounds like you are choosing the wrong ladies. Were you in a relationship with them or were you talking about it as soon as you met them?

Where do you meet these women? If you live in a conservative city or go to a conservative church, then maybe that's why. You could be looking in the wrong places. But what others have pointed out is also true--perhaps you mentioned sex too early in your acquaintance. A lot of women love sex, but they are concerned for their safety and they want to wait until they know a man well before they have sex with him.

wow that really sucks for u lol. but no thats not true, not all girls are like that. I love having sex, and talking about sex with my man. And with that we have romance and love ... just keep looking youll find a good sexfilled woman for urself

I don't know why it is hard other, than most women won't admit that there sex drive is just as high as a man's. I don't know if our drive can be "as high" as a man's is because men are designed to procreate, and our desires are 'from lift-off' begin mostly in a completely different place. Besides, if we are interested in a purely sexual relationship, we are called whore's, and sluts. That is what we have been labeled. We can hardly admit we like sex w/o consequences you see, men throughout the ages have told us time and time again, it just isn't proper for a lady to like--and don't even think about loving sex----unless were married, and then we had better only want it when our husbands want it. I wasn't surprised that a man answered the question "I don't know but there not"... you guys can't have you're cake and eat it too, for give what ever pun might have crossed your mind.... You can't look at us as sexual beings, beautiful creatures, and dirty girls at the same time without conflict of the mind. But, we are very sexual sensual-beings, each and everyone of us. Hell, we have an organ that is only for sexual pleasure with thousands of nerve endings. It serves NO other purpose. Did you know this? Do you think God gave us this, (it is celebrated in some religions, worshiped in others and has been throughout history---and it a huge part of tantric sex rituals (I have read---I am a well read woman). Does this answer your question? Think about it, why do you think there are SO many sex toys?

I have a very healthy sex drive. I love talking about sex. It's something that is natural. There is nothing wrong with it. So women can be scared. They think that sex is the only thing that guys want.

You're probably being too forward about it. Women seem to like to be wooed; it's just the way they are. Those that are hanging signs out (not literally!) for sex are in the minority, and they'll wind up driving you nuts once your own gears start spinning a little bit more slowly. Also, women don't usually have to "mash the gas" in their relationships when it comes to sex. Guys are going to want it, and they know it; and that goes for the guys who constantly ask for it AND the guys who go about it cleverly and patiently, while the relationship is being forged. Try being the clever, patient type. Learn to enjoy the building process; it'll serve you better in the future, not only in your own attitude, but also in that you'll be with a woman who'll actually want to give you affection even if she could do without, since you always sought to make her happy.

I have a crazy sex drive, but I have been told I am different. Although I like it all the time, I still like to be held and cuddled. One thing I might add, if you come across as a man that is only interested in sex, you may be making them feel that's all you want. A woman won't give you sex if you show her that's all the relationship is about. She will more than likely leave you for another. That being said, it is the same with someone that never wants to have sex..major put off!

It's not true at all. I think what they are trying to say is that they are not interested in talking about that with you and probably that they are not interested in you. Every girl I ever dated was a horn dog... lol

Word! Women that talk about love just want a "Dudly do Right" to pay the bills while she gets her kicks with that other guy.

some women do have high sex drives but i think its more common in men. Pregnancy, having kids, stress, even contraception can lower a womans sex drive. If you make a woman feel like an object she's gonna object to sex, make her feel wanted in many ways not just between the sheets.

women do have a sex drive. its just not as frequent as men's b/c of the monthly curse or other reasons like stress, depression, etc. and most women want love and romance b/c all those good relationship feelings increase the desire for sex. nurturing is in our nature so we can't help it. we want the intimacy. if you're not the relationship type than maybe u should get with a chick who used to be a man b/c she might still have that sex drive you're looking for. thats pretty much how it is.

A mature woman needs sex, wants sex, and knows how to get it. The big difference between a man and a woman in a sexual relationship is that, all said and done, the man gives and the woman receives. This difference goes a long way to explain the difference in the ways a woman and a man view sex. Despite advances in contraception, the woman knows that, as the receiver in the partnership, she is running the risk of getting pregnant (even if it's a small one); and that is ALWAYS her subconcious worry. This makes her very selective about whom she partners in this most intimate of acts between herself and her man. To a woman therefore, the whole sexual act is coupled with much more emotion than it is to a man, who simply "sows his oats" and moves on to plough the next available field. The "love and romance" that you mention a woman seeks is but a manifestation of the extra care she is taking to assure herself that she is letting the right man into her body. You may be coming across to your women as too aggressive too early, which probably prompts them to cross their legs tighter.

I'm a woman and my sex drive is almost identical to a what I think of as the typical man's sex drive. The problem is, I am constantly labeled a slut or easy or men assume because I am like this, that I don't want to have the love part too... We are out there. And I know guys are sitting around saying that they want a woman like this (and I'm sure they sincerely do), but I'm not sure why, then, women who are like this are considered deviant and slutty and undesirable. I can't speak for men with certainty, but could it be women with a sex drive they are not ashamed of are intimidating? Being openly sexual, can really ruin our reputation. The way I see it, our social structure is really holding the men back from having the sort of openly sexual women they say they want, and holding women back from having a fulfilling sex life. Basically it sucks for everyone!

I was raised girls are not supposed too want sex or talk about it etc.only bad girls wanted sex.unlady like etc.There was nothing worse than a bad reputation.i think about sex i like sex.