So I left this girl that I was seeing to get back with my ex. Do you think it is right to try to get back with the first girl now that my ex and I are broken up (I am also female btw)?
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it sounds like you are just going from one to the other. you need to decide who you want to be with and stick to your descision because people are going to end up getting hurt unless you make up your mind.
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I think you need to step back for a minute and decide WHAT you want out of a relationship, what qualities you like and dislike in a person and find out those qualities BEFORE picking someone to start a relationship with. You seem focused on WHO you want rather WHAT you want to get out of the relationship. If you don't know what you want, you will never be satisfied because something will come along that seems better and you will want to try it... then when you find you didn't like it after all, you will want what you had before... but it may be too late. If I were the person that was dumped for your ex... then after things went south with your ex you come back to me... I would not want you back. I would feel like I was being used. Remember a relationship isn't always about what makes you feel good, but a mutual satisfaction. So it is important to find a person that meets your needs before entering the relationship. For this reason I do not believe in Love at first sight. Love takes time, whereas purely physical attraction can be instant... and relationships based on pure physical attraction are destined to fail.
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