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by Anonymous on August 30th, 2007

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I meet this younger man. We have seen each other a few times, says he wants to take it further but dosen't call very much. Has a young son and crazy ex wife. Doesn't want me to be involved in the crazyiness she does.Is it an excuse or is he worried.

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  • by Yeahwell... on August 31st, 2007

    Yeahwell...

    Excuse or not, sounds like a potential nightmare. I'd run the other way.

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  • by Tiger on August 31st, 2007

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    It may not be an excuse. Generally when someone who is not having peace of mind in the family life, may speak to someone who they know well or may not speak to anyone.

    In this case he has a son and already a crazy ex-wife, so he may sound geniune as he may not want you to be dragged in the problems which he is already facing.

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  • by Anonymous on January 1st, 2008

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    It sounds like an excuse. You sure he is not still with his wife? You might want to check into that. He is not being truthful with you. I would run..........

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  • by lil ray ray on January 1st, 2008

    lil ray ray

    i think its a excuse dont do it stop seeing him you dont need nothing like that in your life if you really love him tell him you cant see him no more if he loves you he'll understand

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  • by Soulja_pie on November 27th, 2007

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    He might be worried but maybe an escuse. I think he's worried. He likes you and it's obvios so go for it giiiiiiiiiiiiiiirl

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  • by APACHEmeansENEMY on August 31st, 2007

    APACHEmeansENEMY

    I can understand wanting to shelter a new love interest from a crazy ex..i have been in that position before...but on the flip side...sometimes i find it a bit suspicious if a man claims his ex is crazy for no reason...i have to wonder if its something hes doing to make her crazy. the only way to find out is to give it some time and be cautious and open minded.

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  • by candycakes loves j. bell on August 31st, 2007

    candycakes loves j. bell

    this sounds exactly like a situation in my life. my ex-boyfriend and i have a young son together. he has begun to see an older woman who lives out of town, so i guess they can only really talk. i don't really know what they classify their relationship and don't really care. my ex-boyfriend is the crazy one. he lied, cheated, was abusive...but guess what, he liked to act like there was something wrong with me because he couldn't accept that he needed help. this younger man you have met might be the one with the problems, but you haven't been around him enough to see them yet. if his ex-wife is so crazy, then why hasn't he tried to get custody of their child? my guess is that this guy just doesn't want to be seriously involved with you, so he's using his ex-wife as an out.

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  • by close account on September 14th, 2007

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    If he wants to take it further, then you will have to deal with all the crazyness, or maybe he's still messing around with her. and remember women don't go crazy alone, he probably helped her get there. You should rethink wether you want to be involved in all that crazyness!!

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  • by AntigoneRising on August 31st, 2007

    AntigoneRising

    It is very possible that this is a legitimate worry. Stableboy and other ABers can attest to the fact that I worried for over a year about the impact of my crazy ex on my boyfriend. I tried to shelter him from it as much as possible.

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