ANSWERS: 9
  • It may not be an excuse. Generally when someone who is not having peace of mind in the family life, may speak to someone who they know well or may not speak to anyone. In this case he has a son and already a crazy ex-wife, so he may sound geniune as he may not want you to be dragged in the problems which he is already facing.
  • It is very possible that this is a legitimate worry. Stableboy and other ABers can attest to the fact that I worried for over a year about the impact of my crazy ex on my boyfriend. I tried to shelter him from it as much as possible.
  • I can understand wanting to shelter a new love interest from a crazy ex..i have been in that position before...but on the flip side...sometimes i find it a bit suspicious if a man claims his ex is crazy for no reason...i have to wonder if its something hes doing to make her crazy. the only way to find out is to give it some time and be cautious and open minded.
  • Excuse or not, sounds like a potential nightmare. I'd run the other way.
  • this sounds exactly like a situation in my life. my ex-boyfriend and i have a young son together. he has begun to see an older woman who lives out of town, so i guess they can only really talk. i don't really know what they classify their relationship and don't really care. my ex-boyfriend is the crazy one. he lied, cheated, was abusive...but guess what, he liked to act like there was something wrong with me because he couldn't accept that he needed help. this younger man you have met might be the one with the problems, but you haven't been around him enough to see them yet. if his ex-wife is so crazy, then why hasn't he tried to get custody of their child? my guess is that this guy just doesn't want to be seriously involved with you, so he's using his ex-wife as an out.
  • If he wants to take it further, then you will have to deal with all the crazyness, or maybe he's still messing around with her. and remember women don't go crazy alone, he probably helped her get there. You should rethink wether you want to be involved in all that crazyness!!
  • He might be worried but maybe an escuse. I think he's worried. He likes you and it's obvios so go for it giiiiiiiiiiiiiiirl
  • i think its a excuse dont do it stop seeing him you dont need nothing like that in your life if you really love him tell him you cant see him no more if he loves you he'll understand
  • It sounds like an excuse. You sure he is not still with his wife? You might want to check into that. He is not being truthful with you. I would run..........

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