Could mean that she wants to have something on that smells like you. Could also mean he has been close to her since the clothes she had on were washed, and she doesn't want that to hemper your time with her. ( his cologne/aftershave could have runned off onto her shirt, etc) Just remember, she is cheating on her current man with you. That makes it a good chance that if you get back together with her, that she will cheat on you. Be warned, I have seen that happen many time. Be smart, and good luck!

Stop with this. She is sneaking around behind his back. What would stop her from doing the same thing to you? And don't act like she wouldn't. She would if it suited her priorities. Another thing:why are you helping this woman cheat on her boyfriend? You know he is there and you are disrespecting him and their relationship. You are no better than she is. I think she is doing this with you to see if she can get you back.

It means she is a cheat. You really want her back?

Sounds like she dosen't know who/what she wants. But don't let her use you while she is trying to find out. She's making it harder for you to move on if she does pick the other guy. It will be like breaking up all over again.

you should be ashamed of yourself she should be ashamed of herself when the man she lives with finds out, i won't feel bad when he goes ballistic on both your butts.. you will have deserved it

Her boyfriend is an alcoholic and now so is she.I cant let her go because I really do care for her. There is a BIG age difference btwn us but love is love.I do want her back but not like this.Changes have to be made. She is very young and lacks the maturity to make sound decisions at this time. She tells me he is abusive and she recently sat at in front of the PD and stated the same Yet still she goes back to him. I dont understand this. She states she goes back because he understands her drinking! Yet she came to see me 3 times in July alone!

it means that she is mostlily dating that guy.. u need to find out if she truely wants u back too or if she is jsut havin some fun

I AM ASSUMING YOUR IN LOVE WITH HER...BUT BUBBA,YOU HAVE GOT TO LET HER GO.TIME WILL HEAL YOUR PAIN BUT YOU HAVE GOT TO GET AWAY FROM HER IMMEDIATELY.NEVER SPEAK TO HER AGAIN,IF SHE CALLS,COMES OVER,JUST TELL HER YOU CANT GO ON LIKE THIS AND YOUR THROUGH WITH HER...OTHER WISE YOU ARE JUST BEIING HER PUNK AND YOU NEED TO BE A MAN AND WALK AWAY. REMEBER,TIME WILL HEAL YOUR HEART. GOOD LUCK. AND NEXT TIME YOUR LOOKING FOR A WOMAN,YOU SHOULD ALWAYS FIND YOURSELF A GOD FEARING WOMAN. I PROMISE YOU THIS,YOU WILL HAVE A HAPPY LIFE WITH THAT KID OF LADY. GOOD LUCK BUB!

WOW ... AB Really does have a question for everything! I'm in the SAME exact spot with my Ex! She's younger as well, and felt I was not ready to commit a few months ago, so jumped into some other relationship and now is longing to get back with me, but has no other reason to leave him except for her greater love for me. I feel like shit that she's doing this behind his back and don't like it either. The most difficult thing is to decide if it is a TRUE soul match between us, then she would never do this to me if we got back totether, but one never knows. I fear that I am going to have to forget her and lose what I think is one of the only people I have ever met that is a true soul mate. All this, due to the situation and a bad decision on her part to not discuss this with me months ago. When we talk now, she admits it was a messed up decision and misses me badly and thinks about me all the time. Although we love each other, I think circumstances have prevailed over what should happen and have created an impossibly painful situation. Looks like I will be forced to give up what could be lifelong happiness as a result. I guess the song lyrics are correct: "If you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you're with"

You need to stop that only lead to trouble for all you all. Just tell her how you feel and tell her what you want. otherwise find a new girlfriend.

It means she's a compulsive cheater and you should stay away from her

So she is seeing two men. How do you feel about that?

she's keeping her options open...and she will as long as the both of you will keep taking her back...give her an ultimatum and stick to it....or let her go back and forth til someone gets sick of it an puts an end to it...it's your life...your choice...will you trust her once you have her back? you might want to consider that also....

...it means that she is a two-timing, back-stabbing, coniving little tart, that apparently thinks nothing about anyone's feelings!!!! She's just a ride at DISNEYLAND--ANYONE can probably ride her!!!

Boy oh boy... This is exactly what im talking about. Just wandering through life shitting on people at will. I think I hate you!

You want a cheater back? And you don't think she'll eventually cheat on you too? Do you only want her because she's now with another guy? Your not even a little worried about the other guy coming over to beat the sh** out of you? Why she's wearing your clothes when she comes over should be the least of your concerns.

It means you're both foolish and she's a liar. You must LOVE drama...