If you're in a relationship that has evolved to a point where one partner wants sex more often than the other, is it okay/appropriate to go outside the couple for sex as long as it's only for the sex?
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Lemme think about thatNO! If a relationship has evolved to the point where both partners want sex, the partners ought to be able to work it out between them instead of involving other parties, which not only complicate relationship matters beyond description, but also introduce other potential health issues, as well as a jealous third party.
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No...if you want or need more sex then break up with her/him first then do what you gotta do. If you love her/him then I would try to control your urges or do it yourself.
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Is it ok? Maybe. However it depends on the two partners within the relationship, if they agree to such, and if they are able to withstand the stress that an out of the relationship affair places on the relationship. There are so called "open" relationships. They work rather well for the people involved - however the couples in such a relationship have a strong relationship, have communicated and continue to communicate. I do not pretend to know why people go for an open relationship like this. I assume it is because both are seeking for something more. I do not know if it will work for just one person to play outside while the other sticks to monogamy. My gut instinct is that it would not work out. As for one partner having a desire for more sex than the other that can be indicative of other issues inside the relationship that the addition of "open" relationship would be harmful. I am by no means advocating secret affairs here. It must be open, honest and spoken about before one or both partners go out to play. Anything else is cheating, and cheating is subject to all kinds of punishment.
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No way. Then it's time to comprimise. Otherwise, it's time to find a new partner. That is so selfish to do sosmething like that.
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It might be OK for some people, although not for me. If you and your partner are one of those couples that don't expect exclusivity within your relationship and you are both in agreement with one or other of you sleeping around I don't see why not. However, if the partner wasn't happy about this it would be neither OK nor appropriate - it would be selfish and hurtful. Time to call a halt to the relationship, in fact.
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No - Sex is a very deep act of intimacy. Going outside of a relationship in order to do so, in my opinion, is a direct violation of your significant other. You ought to take into consideration the wishes of your significant other as well.
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SO IN OTHR WORDS... YOU ASKING IF IS OKAY TO CHEAT... AND HAVE TO HAVE SEX OUTSIDE AND RELATION... I WOULD TELL MY PARTNER **** HELL NAH *** ARE YOU CRAZY....
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That's an awesome question! I think, however, it's got a lot to do with what you think of each other. If you think you can sleep with someone else and still be attached to your mate the same as before, and if they know you're having sex with someone else, I think it's just fine to do. Put the burden on someone else for a while, but I know many people don't have this same view point.
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