Not very often. If I'm mad about him for something else, it might bother me. I trust my husband, so most of the time I couldn't care less.

Not jealous so much as angry with the flirt-er. It's disrespectuful to me and to us. I only get jealous if I think he likes her at all.

Yes and I find it so disrespectful when I am sitting right there.

I get jealous, but more than that I get angry at the person who was flirting. Its so rude. You know how many times I have been walking through the store and a girl is so obviously checking him out, while Im holding his hand? That is a HUGE pet peeve of mine.

I find the person I am with attractive, so I'm not surprised other people would too. It doesn't bother me.

Women should not flirt with married men. If a woman flirts with my husband in my presence, I get irritated because she is disrespecting my marriage. However, I do not get irritated if a woman flirts with my husband and does not know that he is married. It's the man's responsibility to make the woman's flirting seem unwelcome. I say "seem" because most men (and women) probably consider someone flirting with them to be a compliment. I would be annoyed if my husband flirted back. Married men should not flirt with other women. Also, flirting, although it may seem harmless, can lead to other things. I guess the question is "Why do individuals flirt with married people?"

Yes i get very very annoyed when a woman is flirting with my husband - 9 times out of 10 my husband is oblivious to the flirting and then turns around and tells me "oh she's a nice person, we should invite her to dinner".. the hell I am!!! Then he says that i need to get over it. And, i am one of those wives that will stand there and give the FLIRTER the cold shoulder, just ta let them know!

Angry, not jealous. A woman that my husband spent 2 years in Iraq with has started posting very flirty messages laden with sexual innuendo on his myspace page. Right out there in public where his wife and everyone else can see it. Apparently she knows he is married and has kids but she doesn't care. It infurates me. Now I have some woman I have never met telling my husband he is sexy and that she wants to "play" with him and that it feels like "forever and a day" since they saw each other.......I don't know how NOT to be pissed. It is totally rude and disrespectful for women to act like that towards married men.

Not usually. I know he would never cheat on me. Honestly, if I didn't trust him I wouldn't be with him, and I expect other girls to be attracted to him because he's really attractive. But it doesn't bother me.

Most people who flirt, do it for the attention. I think its people with a narcissistic personality trait. They feel like crap, so they seek outside attention. I do not think it is healthy for a person to flirt with others when they have a steady relationship or marriage. Might as well stay single and flirt around with other single people and live a free life. My brother gave me some advice, once, when i was angry at my boyfriend for flirting back at his friend, who happened to be a girl. He said that women who flirt with guys that have wives or steady girlfriends do it because they are trying to compete. A married or taken guy is more desirable to a single women because he becomes unavailable, and therefore less attainable. Its like looking at a girl with a pretty dress, and wanting the same exact dress, but only because you are jealous of how the dress looks on the other girl. I'm a girl, but i can't stand other women... Girls are always trying to compete and make other girls feel like shit. Its so stupid. Just because you feel like an ugly sh!t, doesn't mean you have to try and destroy other girls lives. I believe, that if some slut is flirting with your man, and she knows he is your man, and he flirts back, then drop him. He is not into respectful relationships. He needs attention from sl@ts, well then feed him to the dogs and let them have him. There are plenty of good guys out there... p.s. most of these good guys do not hang out at clubs!

if i can see that there's a slight interest on his part, then definitly...especially if i'm right there! otherwise it isn't that big of a deal because i know that he's with me, not with her

sometimes i do, it depends on how far the flirter takes it.

yes

No, I know that he is coming home with me. I am more proud that he is still hot enough for woman to flirt with at 49. Lucky me.

I get upset and then I calm down because I kinow he would not cheat on me with her . She works with us and is sooooo ugly. She actually thinks he pays her attention . She is disrespectful and I stopped talking to her she is a trashy whore with six kids only has three she takes cre of and they are by two different men she claims she was married to . She even smells like stinky fish what a tramp!

Yes I did when one night my boyfriend, a girlfriend of mine and I all went out to a club. We hadn't been there but 20 min when she danced with my man. Ok it's not that she danced with him that upset me, but the fact that she got so close as to rub every part of her body (and I do mean EVERY part) against his. I was angry at both of them which caused me to make a scene and look like I was drunk or something when I'd only had one drink.I made it clear to both that that was crossing the line.He apologized and said he was just trying to be nice to my friend. Which I do believe him because he wasn't touching her back.(but he didn't push her back either which he could have.) She was a a bit sauced before she got there. That and the fact that she's an ex stripper doesn't help the matter. anyways he doesn't want to see her again and doesn't trust her. I on the hand still concider her a friend and do want to see her although I will not go to bars with her again lol

Jealous no... Pissed off Yes!!! At her not him. Ladies consider yourself warned.

Not jealous but most definitely disrespected. How sleazy.

Dead woman don't make me jealous.

Yes, absolutely. I'll kill him humbly.

i won't stand for it...if he firts back with them...dump him, ya happiness comes first...i don't know any girl who deap down really likes it....unless they all share....If he's going to be a womanizer...then your best off making your own plans before you lose your mind completely..put your own happiness first before it's too late! + the more your upset about it the more they seem to do it more...Nah nothin' wrong with standing your own ground! Most of the women are after a one night shag anyway & that's how deseases get spread & with that making it perfectly wrong to brake up a happy home! + most of the firts arn't very nice people & some will try & do it right under your nose...Nah if you love someone that much...this shows you care for them & your dibby bf should see that & he should take your feeling into account!!! ;o)

Please don't confuse this with them having friends cause your bfs are allowed to have friends, but we get it alot from people who don't know us both flirting ...like when we out having dinner together, sometimes it feels like i'm having dinner with 20 other women & it feels pointless me even being there...he makes it so obvious he eyeing them up sometimes which annoys the hell out off me & they even woft over when their crossing the road...like their floating towards him playing with their hair & doing that smile they put on treating me like i'm stupid...which yeah it annoys the crap out of me to be honest, I don't want to fight them cause i'm not a nasty person...but yeah when this happens under my nose...It does effect you...cause it's the priciple of the matter & they are just cunts trying to steel something thats yours, The way I look at it, is you wouldn't just let random people into your house to juat take what they like would you...so same goes for your fella! but they are allowed to have friends though & their friends should respect you both as a couple but i know it doesn't always work like that! Good Luck to all of you!

I think jealousy and anger over being disrepected by another woman are two completely different things. It is so easy to throw the 'oh she's just jealous' term at the person who is caught in the middle, ie the girlfriend in between the boyfriend and said flirter. When it happened to me quite recently (for months) from my histrionic ex-flatmate towards my new boyfriend, I was incredibly angry at her for being so disrecpectful and anti-female towards me while feigning to be my friend. II did not take it personally however because she would often come home from nights out where she was always talking about couples and how the wife seemed jealous of her. I wonder why. These women get power kicks out if it and i am not sure insecurity is a reason or an excuse, rather delusional and downright nasty! It is a hard thing to deal with at the time though because if you express anger you are giving the flirter exactly what she wants, a perceivable jealous reaction and a power kick. The best thing to do is be extra friendly while keeping them out of your lives as much as possible. Being sweet and friendly derails them, a bit like 'smile at your enemies it drives them crazy". But in life stay away from aggressive people like this, they are vexations to the spirit (so sayeth Desiderata), these women are destructive and anti-female. Oh - the interpretation of jealousy as opposed to the female predator analysis is that jealousy is irrational, other women are not necessarily flirting they just happen to be nearby or interacting with your partner in a purely innocent manner and it makes you angry and mistrustful of your partner. That is another issue entirely. Also, men who flirt with other women in front of you are usually not worth knowing either and i agree, a lot of histrionic female predators would be put in their place if the MAN made it clear it was unwelcome but unfortunately due to men's lack of awareness, reading of body language or ego at being flirted with, this doesn't happen often enough.

Im not jealous but husband say i am when talk with other women or flirts. I get upset does it ant tell him bugs me he says not doing anything wrong

Hello, My BF and I live together. We met in a bereavement group since our spouses passed away. He thinks it is okay for another woman to keep kissing him and telling him how much she loves him. The fact that she did this in front of me and her husband makes no difference. They should be able to flirt, because they have known each other for forty some years. He also thinks it is okay to keep telling his son's fiancee how pretty she is in front of me and his family without saying the same about me. And it's okay for him to beg her for a kiss by saying over and over to her " I want a kiss. I want a kiss. " I am the jealous one. I am all at fault, because I had the audacity to let the husband of the first woman know she was not to keep kissing my BF. So now I put a rift into their friendship. BTW, they just phoned last week, and everything was fine. Of course, she's not to blame. I am also being held accountable for having a shouting match with the second lady, even though she yelled first. My BF just wants to believe her. My BF tells me I'm not a swinger. Well, that's fine with me. He likes to think of himself that way. In truth, he is not. He doesn't think for one second what he does is wrong. I don't mind him giving another woman a welcome and a good-bye hug and kiss. Men who flirt with another woman in front of their significant others, and women who don't stop them are disgusting and rude. Love And Blessed Be, Theresa