I go get a home pregnancy test, or go to a sexual health clinic. TO see if you have a Planned Parenthood near you go to http://plannedparenthood.org. Then, make sure if you are or not. If NOT, don't tell him, but use condoms AND your BC patch. You don't need any babies right now! If you ARE, they can give you some information on ALL your options, and that includes abortion, adoption, and also some parenting information if you decide that you want to raise this child. They can council you and give you all the information you need/want. Whatever you do, please tell SOMEONE. Don't just try this alone. Talk to someone, even if it's not a parent- talk to the Planned Parenthood people. They can give you options. Don't just "take care of this yourself"! Good luck, and for your sake, I hope that your test is negative.

First of all calm down. Next you have to take a test, you can get that at any pharmacy. If that comes out positive go to the doctor.

I know it's hard but i think u need to go to your parents and just 'fess up, you will need their help to sort this out. How old is your friend?

It's certainly nice to have discovered fun sex at the age of 15. It's also nice to have discovered the consequences of your efforts. Choices for a 15-year-old pregnant girl are somewhat limited. Marriage (which sounds like it is out), abortion (???), carrying the baby to term and putting the child up for adoption, becoming a single mom with responsibilities of support of both yourself and the child. Tough decisions. I strongly recommend you talk it over with your lover. After all, he has some responsibility. Also, depending on your relation with your parents, discuss it with them. And, you can seek counseling from local counseling centers (who operate on a sliding price scale so you can afford this). Good luck with this. You will get through it. Others before you have faced the same problem and survived quite nicely. You will too.

Ok, first of all, you need a pregnancy test, secondly get a sexual health check up. The patch, by this I assume you mean Evra? is effective. All contraception has a 99% safe rate if used 'properley' as per instructions. With this contraception its so easy to use, if you arent sure, click on my profile and email me and Ill explain it to you in easy terms :-) It is not often contraception fails unless used wrong. The patch is a pretty good reliable contraception so I can only assume you put it on at the wrong time, or forgot to put the next one on, or it fell off or some other reason (most contraceptive failure is because ppl do not know how to use it the right way). If your patch has failed, and you did everything right, please do report it to the place you got it from, as the batch might be faulty (it needs to be recalled or traced back), so that other women dont end up pregnant also. The other issue, is that you really shouldnt be having sex. This isnt a lecture though ok, its just that so many ppl make light of sex and that its ok, and that 'hey, if you get pregnant its easy to fix'. In the first place, its half the problem today that ppl are just sleeping around with whoever and this is acceptable. Have a litttttle bit of self respect, more than the boy you are with, and say no in future, makes you feel a better person :-) and you dont have the stress and worry of pregnancy/infection. There is no rush to have sex, find other things to do with your time. Additionally, this boy you are having sex with, if he is older, then he really should know better than to do this with you. I apologise if I have sounded a bit lecturing, I dont mean to be. But by all means contact me if you need to ok :-) And yes, discuss with parents, partner etc IF you are pregnant. If not, then stop having sex, both get a sexual health check up and just wait till you are a bit more mature and responsible before having sex again...its over rated anyway!!!! Hope this makes sense to you.

I remember fun sex at a young age and I remember the not so fun part of a girl thinking she was pregnant. I'm not going to lecture you, you'll get plenty of that if you are pregnant. Tell your "friend", tell your parents. You'll have to sooner or later anyway, and if this turns out as only a scare, learn from it. There's to many STD's out there that'll kill you. At 15, you have a lot of fun ahead of you, no room for a baby in your life yet. Best of luck to both of you.

Find out if there's a Planned Parenthood Clinic or similar facility in your neighborhood. They will chk you for OB, VD and general health. GOOOO! Then you need to ask yourself why you are having unprotected sex with someone "just for fun". Why are you settling for and expecting so little out of life?

well first things first if your not pregnant, STOP HAVING SEX STUPID!!! your like 15, thats fuckin ridiculous

First you get a pregnancy test, then if it's possitive, see a doctor and tell your "friend". It's not just for fun if it's everyday and you're kidding yourself and him for thinking that.

Sex comes with responsibilities. You've got to realize this. I'm not going to be harsh on you because I know that sex is tempting. I understand your concerns. I have the same ones. That's what keeps me holding on to my virginity. Anyway, you might be pregnant. There is a 50/50 chance that you are every time you have sex (since you're a girl). It's normal to feel the way that you're feeling. Oh, and remember this: Just because a guy has sex with you does not mean that he loves you. Be careful.

1) Take a pregnancy test. 2) Try telling him about what you think has happened. 3) What the hell were you thinking? Sex at 15....21st century...not the 16th. What is this world coming to...? (PS: Sorry if I'm being bitchy. My bad...seriously...sorry)

This is what you get in an immoral society. There is no reason WHY YOU SHOULD BE PREGNANT AT YOUR AGE! And it is not okay especially if you aren't committed. You aren't an animal that lives in the jungle that sleeps left and right. God created you with reason, so USE IT.

Whether or you think he wants to have a relationship is irrelevant. You are in one if you are having sex. And with that come responsibilities and consequences, for you and him. If you find you're pregnant be honest with him. If he chooses not to take responsibility, you'll find out just what kinda "friend" he really is.