My boyfriend wants to try anal sex and I'm not against it but it always hurts too much for him to put it all the way in and for about a week after we try, it hurts ALOT when I have to go to the bathroom. Any tips? Is it even worth it?

It is very much worth it. I find anal sex to be very enjoyable. The main thing you have to do is relax, when you're tense it's going to hurt, a lot.

Work yourself slowly into it, let him use a finger first (with lube of course, I'd suggest Astroglide) so he can allow you to get use to the feeling. This also helps by working some lube inside of you to make his penetration easier on you. After that, when it comes to actually having anal sex I'd suggest doing it doggy style. Let him slowly insert himself (again, use lube!!) and then you take it from there. Some times when you first start out you can only allow him in an inch or so at a time. Do that, let your body relax again, and when you're ready push back onto him. Tell him that you want to be in charge. You control the speed and the depth of penetration. Trust me, it'll feel better. And with you being in control, plus the help of lube, it'll take away a lot of the "next day" pain because there is a lot less chance of you tearing down there. Which would be the cause of the pain you were feeling throughout the week and the pain w/ going to the bathroom.

If this doesn't help, but you still want to give it one more go, try out some thing that is called Anal Eze. You can buy it at any adult store or at mypleasure.com (love that place!). It's a numbing gel and will numb you a little bit down there to where it doesn't hurt as bad. I've never used it so I can't tell you how well it works but I've heard good things :).

I totally agree that it is very worth it. When done safely and slowly the pain should be minimal.

As far as it hurting when you go to the bathroom he probably went up you too soon. Preparation for anal sex can take a long time. It is pure enjoyment for me. I get to lay there usually on my side with my knees up and my boyfriend is gently probing my anus with his fingers, a toy, a bigger toy. I get to relax and enjoy it. What could be better?

buy a dildo that is "comparable" to your boyfriend..next time he suggests it.pull out the dildo and the astroglide and tell him to roll over and it might hurt a little but you will be gentle w/him....

Read this post: : http://mflife.wordpress.com/2006/10/12/anal-sex-101/ . It tells you what you need to know about how to do anal sex the right way and be able to enjoy it.

Chances are he needs to slow down. Vaginal sex and anal sex are not the same. The parts are not built the same. Also use lots of lube, there is no such thing as too much.

Do it or he will find someone else who will

take it slow and use vaseline. Make sure to finger the anus quite a lot using vaseline and then slowly insert penis with the penis head coated with vaseline. Once the penis is fully inserted, slowly pull out and coat penis with more vaseline then reinsert fully but slowly.

Well I do not like it very much but I do it anyway. My man uses vaselinefirst then we do it.

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Try, try, try again, pain will finally go away and lust will take place.

go to the nearest adult store and get some anal ease. it numbs up your ass so it dont hurt when he sticks it in and his dick get numb too and feels great