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  • Why not ask her out on a date?
  • Be quiet. Take her hand or lean over and kiss her. That'll telegraph your seriousness.
  • tell her you wanna talk in private tell her this is not a funny thing and tell her how you feel if she laugh's tell her that you really meen it and you really really want her then show her your not jokeing and move closer then kiss her
  • It's best not to stress too much about these things. For starters, it sounds like you've already got a good relationship: you enjoy each other's company. Take it to the next level by paying her more attention, buying things specifically for her. Not just a burger and chips, but something more personal, such as a necklace. That'll help get the hint across as well as saving you the hassle of forming the right words. If her or your friends are always hanging around, try to "go somewhere" together so there isn't any interference. Talk to her on a slightly deeper level. If all else fails, just spill the beans. Just remember that you've got an awesome girl who laughs with you and is good company. Don't blow that.
  • Tell her she has nice shoes :)
  • Wow, that's a tough one. I actually know a guy like this who would always "flirt" with me according to other people. I thought he was just being nice and hilarious, even when he'd tell me he "loved me". If he asked me out, I seriously would have thought he was joking. Maybe you should learn when to be serious. A sense of humour is good, but when it's overdone, people won't know when to take you seriously. You could try lowing your voice when the two of you are alone and say something along these lines to her, "Sarah, please listen to me. I really do like you and I mean it. I know it might be hard for you to take me seriously, but I really do. I like seeing you laugh and I like seeing you smile. I enjoy spending time with you because I really do like you for who you are." If you say this with a quiet, serious voice, full of meaning (don't say it if you don't mean it), ... she might believe you. I know I probably would have if the guy I knew before told me that in that way. (Obviously, change the name Sarah to the girl you likes actual name). I wish you the best.
  • Sometimes you have to cut through the fun flirting and just seriously ask her what she thinks about it. A guy at work did this with me and I thought he was just joking about everything, but eventually he pulled me aside when we were hanging out with some coworkers and told me how he really felt... we had an amazing relationship for about a year and I'm really glad that he did it. Hope it works out for you :)
  • I had some guys flirt with and tease me and I thought they were only joking but now I know maybe they weren't. If only they could have come right out and said they liked me. I was very slow in picking up the cues.
  • maybe everything you say IS funny. and if you like her so much make it known, tell her. ask her if she wants to go to a movie or hang out with you . make it obvious. good luck :)
  • stop... looker her straight in the eyes (if you can get away with you hands on her shoulders all the better) "seriously, all joking aside I....": "think you are beautiful", " want to go out with you" what ever you think
  • The funnie thing about being funny is that even when you're not trying to be funny, people still think you are funnie. Funny stuff, eh?
  • By telling her your intentions!

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