ANSWERS: 6
  • be honest, but keep in mind there are some things that don't need to be said. it sounds like you aren't in love anymore and realize that you deserve better treatment. that's all you really need to say. well, that and goodbye.
  • be honest, but keep in mind there are some things that don't need to be said. it sounds like you aren't in love anymore and realize that you deserve better treatment. that's all you really need to say. well, that and goodbye.
  • be honest, but keep in mind there are some things that don't need to be said. it sounds like you aren't in love anymore and realize that you deserve better treatment. that's all you really need to say. well, that and goodbye.
  • One thing you don't mention is if you have tried to talk with the mom/dad of your child to make things better. To break things off without a fair try to improve your current relationship, especially since you have a child together, is a route you may regret later. Remember the old saying, "The grass always looks greener on the other side." ! With that said, if you are past that you need to be honest and let them know you are not committed to this relationship any longer. How much detail you go into depends on your/their temperament but do your best to keep as much emotion out of the conversation. Remember: you will always have a child with this person so keeping as much confrontation, blame and anger out of dealing with them will only help you later. Good luck to all three of you in your current relationship.
  • Invite them to dinner with the new fella.
  • I would just tell them that you know that there is a child involved and all but that you do not want to be with him anymore because you've found someone who treats you better and let him know that you will still allow him to see the child. Good luck!

Copyright 2023, Wired Ivy, LLC

Answerbag | Terms of Service | Privacy Policy