ANSWERS: 8
  • Drop her, is it really worth the time and effort to win her back if she "doesn't see a future in you"?
  • trying to forget her, but its not that easy, she tells me if she got back with me now it would be for the wrong reasons. havent spoken to her since friday just don't whether just to forget it or maybe she might come back, she has been down about her weight,work and family and maybe the argument between us kicked it off. i know she loves me but just dont understand why she has ended it all of a sudden just like that everyone keeps telling me give her time and she will come back, but as my dad says , dont count your chickens
  • if its a long term relationship i suggest you's try to sit down and talk about where its gone wrong,you's obviously both love each other so dont throw it away,talk to each other and see what yous can do to try salvage it!!
  • have done mate, she cried and cried , jsut kept saying im sorry for hurting you, i love you but cant help the way i feel. so im giving her space now, trying to bump into her so she sees me and hopefully remind her what we had, but just waiting for her to come to me as i've done all i can and ppl tell me i will be pushing her away if i keep going on about it. :( thanks for advice
  • Dude you might want to give her her space. Call maybe every other day they every 3, 4, and 5 days and then once a week and then stop. wait for her to come to you. She will. [a girl told me this]
  • well we are emailing again, and its just having a laff carrying on really. asked her how she is feeling ' lonely, miserable and very confused.' thinking of asking her to go for a walk at dinner time as i work with her, or thinking just give her more time. thanks for your advice chu , really helps mate :)
  • It sounds like she is confused...I think she might just need a break from you. Maybe she's not sure if being with you is just a waste of her time, not trying to be mean.
  • It sounds like she is confused...I think she might just need a break from you. Maybe she's not sure if being with you is just a waste of her time, not trying to be mean.

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