If she reacted like that when I called, believe me, I would NEVER call her again. Sounds like she has moved on and decided your friendship is not what she wants. Take the hint and move on also.

It seems as though your friendship doesnt mean as much to her as it does to you. I dont think you are overreacting at all.

well let mebefore i say what she said let me back up and give you a littel history of her and i. last summer when she was visiting I fell for a certain guy, named chris. (he was visiting w/ her and her brother as her younger brothers friend.) She knew this..it was clera and obvious. I overdid it though and called him a million times while he was visiting here.--anyways--- -so last night after receiving a text i sent her, after i did call about three times between a few weeks and send like 3 different text messages, she responded by saying, along w/ others things, "you are beginning to stalk me. **you did this to chris last year too**. you drive people furtehr and further away. if someone doesn't respond the 1st time you shoudl wait until they call you, and if they dont call then don't bother them. this is getting really annoying. " --so she has a point and is being honest.. but i think by bring up chris she is bieng completely uncalled for..she has a habit of doing that..and then it comeds across as if she thinks the world revolves around her which can be annoying, and she use to be a bit minipulative..the miniulative ting seems to have went away but then she goes and causes me pain again when i thought maybe she grew beyoind that.. but sometimes i guesss peple really dont change. .. i'm wondering if you think i shoudl try and stick it out..i know i'm entitled t my feelings and all and I def. washurt by that.. i felt like sayin "how dare you".. i mean i think she was bieng a total b**ch..and i dont say that unless i mean it.

I agree with the Rabbit, Rachel. And, it sounds to me like she may have liked your brother's friend, also. Either way, she doesn't seem to be as good a friend as you thought. I say let her go. If she is a good friend, she will call, eventually. And, if not, it doesn't sound as if you've lost anything.

She doesn't seem like a very good friend, I would dump her completely. If she comes back around and you decide to forgive her for her words then I guess you can go from there. I would react the same exact way you did and would also be very upset. Good Luck to you!

Oh Rachel, she's the one with the problem not you. I think you should just go on being who you are, you have made contact and now the rest is up to her. Just keep on being yourself :)

I'd say she's definitely being uncalled for. She STILL IS manipulative as she's manipulating you right now by making you feel bad for doing nothing wrong. All relationships (friendships included) take effort and you're doing all of it so dump her sorry ass and make it clear you don't need her in your life but that you were being a good friend as that's what FRIENDS do. Bringing up the Chris thing was insensitive and part of the manipulation ploy. Psychologically speaking she was projecting her feelings of guilt onto you. Basically because she knows not responding was both wrong and IMMATURE, she tried to make YOU out to be the immature one when really, it's her that is. Don't feel bad for txting or calling her, i've had friends do that with me and i've just been busy but appreciate them contacting me and do get back to them eventually or answer if they call and explain my reasonings behind lack of response... normal behaviour of a friend IS NOT to start saying you're stalking them. Sorry but you need a new friend as you definitely deserve better (the sorry is because i'm sorry you had to go through such treatment =[ ) That was long but hope it helps! =]