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  I have these two friends who sit with at school, we talk all the time and I would consider us best friends, but whenever I ask them to hang out outside of school they always don't reply for the rest of the day. And when they text back it's nothing to do with what I asked, but in school we're super freindly and have a laugh but after school we act like we don't know each other and I'm really confused because they seem to like me in school but we never do anything and always avoid my messages so I don't know if there actually my real friends.
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  I find this guy cute. We re in the same school but we don t have any classes together . We hung out with a group of friends a couple of times. we were once talking about being crushed on ( with a group ofc) and tells us how he told another girl he wasn t looking for anyone right now. I don t know whether or not to take him seriously. Plus even if I shouldn t worry about that, how would I know whether or not I should spend my time liking him. But he s a real catch tho T.T.
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  I find this guy cute. We re in the same school but we don t have any classes together . We hung out with a group of friends a couple of times. we were once talking about being crushed on ( with a group ofc) and tells us how he told another girl he wasn t looking for anyone right now. I don t know whether or not to take him seriously. Plus even if I shouldn t worry about that, how would I know whether or not I should spend my time liking him. But he s a real catch tho T.T.
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  My girlfriend and I were happy together had a dog lived together and talked of marriage. My friend would always come over and hang with me, after a while him coming over turned into a everyday thing. Long story short, situations happend like me and my buddy hanging in the garage and him saying goodbye and then an hr later I go upstairs and he's sleeping on the floor next to the couch we're my girlfriend is sleeping. Other things like they had exchanged phone numbers without me knowing. I asked them both if anything was goin on I felt like an idiot when they both said no. Time passed then more stuff like I pulled into the grocery mart parking lot and there sitting there talking . I ended up asking my girlfriend and my friend a ton of times if what I was feeling like they were hooking up was real No no no your insane and insecure. Ok my girlfriend ended up leaving me because of all this she told me that they never talked at all. We're broken up now and my friend still comes around but he dosnt seem like a real friend he says I would never do that, and then bragged to me the other day about how he hooked up with a chick who has a boyfriend.
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  Greetings the issue that im about to talk about has been bothering me for sometime and i thought it would be best if i can get advice from people.I have strict parents and i think this has affected my social life negatively.The only time i could actually spend time with my friends was at school,and i was at a boarding school in high school.During the holidays my parents would never allow us to go for friends birthday parties,movies and just generally spending time with them as they believed having a social life was not important.we rarely used to have friends over because me and my siblings would always be afraid of bringing our friends home because of the fear of what our parents would say and do.The only time i had friendships that existed was when i was in school,the moment i went home for holidays my friendships were non existant.I am currently in University but im home on holiday and my parents have given me a curfew which is at 18:00 hrs.My parents barely let me have freedom.I now look at my life and ive realised that i barely have any friends.No one calls my phone to ask to do anything with me.My social life especially when im home is non existant.And ive stayed with not having really close friends for a very long time.What advice would you give me as i need to have a social life and friends with whom i can spend time with?
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  Help please. My friend is in trouble and I don’t know how to help her, she’s going through so much and she’s only 11. She’s an internet friend, so I just don’t know how I can help her over text. Here are her words, sorry it’s really long “It's not fair. I feel like I'm being neglected by my mom but I don't know. It's just.. Ugh. We're 11 and 12 and we haven't learned how to do laundry yet. Our mom doesn't do our laundry either. Yeah our washer is broken but there's a laundry mat not far at all from our house. But she still doesn't wash our clothes and she actually knows how to-- But like, she just lets our 61 year old grandma who is really weak and has asthma and lives in a hotel do our laundry?? When she can literally just take it to the laundry mat and do it herself Okay second off We're not getting an education since November. She pulled us out because we were being bullied but we never started any other type of school.. We haven't seen a doctor or dentist in TWO YEARS. Wtf. Make us an appointment mom A lot of times I overdosed on albuterol because..suicidal thoughts. Sadly I never died but, she didn't even take me anywhere to get help any of the times I overdosed? And she knew I overdosed? Like this has been going on for months and months. I can only have 4 puffs of albuterol in 24 hours-- I keep taking around 20-50 puffs of it in less than 5-10 minutes. Why haven't I died already?! Albuterol overdose can be fatal. It can lead to cardiac arrest or even death which is my goal. Next time I should use my whole fucking inhaler. Whenever I overdose I start feeling all shaky and weak and dizzy..and my head starts throbbing..and it gets hard to breathe and it feels like my heart is beating way too fast.. And I can't form coherent sentences and my vision gets all blurry.. I need help. She doesn't understand. All the times I overdosed, cried for no reason, yelled over nothing, felt sad and fatigued for hours and hours. She hasn't taken a fucking hint. The other day I told her I was having suicidal thoughts and t
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  How do I get my ex girlfriend back? Hi so I’m in a situation where I know my ex still loves me and is in love with me. However the reason for this breakup (48 hrs ago) was for us to work on ourselves, to get the ball rolling on our careers and after we do that she said she promised we’d try things out again. She said she has no time for me rn because her mom just went through a kidney transplant and she needs to focus on her plus she said she doesn’t feel like she loves herself enough and before putting all 100% into me she wants to do that for herself. We took a 2 week break and she told me she felt awful because she wanted to give me attention it’s just she needs to be strong for herself and show herself that she can be responsible. So she broke things off so she doesn’t feel like I’m waiting on the sidelines for her. She also wants time for herself to do yoga and make new friends. Our breakup wasn’t bad. We talked and talked and even had sex and took a last picture of us kissing before going our separate ways. She contacted me the next morning telling me she hopes work went good and we talked for a bit then the conversation ended and restarted again at night while we were both at work. She told me during the breakup that she felt uncomfortable in the relationship because when we argue or fight I’d be an a**hole and yell and cuss at her. I told her I wanna change for myself but also for us because I realized that it’s not cool of me to be yelling over dumb things. She said she doesn’t know if things will workout in the future between us but we will try again and as long we work on ourselves rn then only good things will come. Any advice would be helpful as this time for me is hard because we told each other we’d work through anything and that our relationship could go to hell and back and we’d still love each other. I know this is hell rn I just want things to workout again.
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  So I joined college a week ago and it's been great so far. Haven't made a lot of friends yet but it's fine. My roommate is some girl I've never met before till like 4 days ago and she and her friends seem pretty cool. I'm not a very talkative person (probably awkward af) and I try to be social but it just turns into a very awkward situation. The hostel I stay in usually offer meals and since I can't eat some foods (tummy issues) I decided to order takeout on my first day stay. My roommate and her friend were on the top bunk talking during dinner and they told me to go get some food and I declined saying I was full and all but then my takeout arrived and when I got to eating, she and her friend weren't there so there's no way I could offer it to them. So when they came back, the food was already cold and I felt bad offering them cold food (bc it seems like I'm giving them my leftovers; rude) so I just kept it there till the next morning when I threw it out. A few days later, I hear her talking to her friends telling them how selfish I am. It really hurts bc we don't know each other that well and she's already making judgements about me. We don't talk much but I feel like I've been nothing but good to her despite being quiet and all. God knows what nonsense she's been feeding her friends. What should I do? I really do like her friends
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  I need a opinion- my cousins flying back soon And my parents expect more From me considering that she kept talking shit about my whole family they want me to be an ideal kid Im trying my best Yet even when my mom wants me to do well She constantly says that I wont be able to improve every little thing I do they rate me on especially staying after school today thinking that all I was doing was fooling around It’s just exhausting They did this when I was younger and it stressed me out Especially since I was going through some in school conflict with other kids Whenever I did something well There was always another kid that did it better My parents comparing me to the kid I just gave up in middle school I couldn’t take the pressure And that’s what fucked me up It got worse in my mind I constantly judged myself it was all there my parents had already done their deed It’s just me against myself Which is why I’m so insecure I constantly compare myself to others Because it’s become a habit formed by my parents they still do it now they still compare me to every perfect student or kid I just wish they would give me a break my great aunts does the same thing they would bring up smart kids they knew whenever they came over I would be taking a break and listening to music And they’d say Hey this is a good time to study, since so and so is better than you Ive never once been praised for awards Both of them would just shrug it off Im tired Im sick of it its the first day of school and they’re already marking off a mistake my family in Vietnam thinks that all I do is play video games And that I’m a good for nothing piece of shit And that i’ll just kill myself one day And that my parents will be free from dealing with me Of course the only way they would know about how unstable I am is from my cousin and all of my family members think that I’m just doing it for attention “If you wanna die so badly why don’t you just do it” “give your parents an actual reward” “They probably hate you because you’re like this” and my mom throws
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  Hey I'm 17 and I met this one girl over the December holiday at a party. We made out that night many many times we were kind of drunk....I've seen her a lot since, we are in different schools so I see her only on weekends. We've kissed a lot since, but I'm not shure of she actually likes me or if we are just friends because I know she usually has many guys around her - but still I see that she makes an effort to see me. Do you think she actually likes me?