ANSWERS: 5
  • You basically have two choices: work extra hard on the relationship IF you want it to work or say goodbye. SHE cannot make you happy. That has to come from within yourself. You can make a strong committment to be happy with her or without her and it may dramatically change your outlook on the relationship itself. Once you have your own happiness under control, you may come to realize that you care more about her than you realize. Good luck!
  • You first need to decide to be happy and then work toward building your life. People cannot MAKE us happy. Once you have discovered the secret of happiness and contentment in your own life, you may be ready to resume the relationship or start a new one. All the best to you.
  • You can't expect someone else to make you happy or complete. YOU have to do that and it sounds like you may need some time alone to figure it all out. You have to have enough respect for her to tell her what is going on and to end it before she gets more invested in it than she was before. Don't waste your time trying to fix something that's broken. You'll end up wasting years of your life trying to fix things with the wrong person when you could be figuring yourself out or looking for someone new. Let her down gently but honestly and things will work out for the best eventually. I wish you both luck.
  • its time to be honest with her and say you tried to make it work but it's not and that is when you move on. Good luck and don't worry, most people get in this situation once in their life time of dating
  • The first rule of break ups is never go backwards! Break up clean and move on with your life. You only get cuaght up in a lot of mess if you have any tendencies to move backwards at anytime.

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