ANSWERS: 5
  • If she really likes her boyfriend, she wouldn't be jeopardizing his health and future. Normally, what happens between two people should be their business, but when it's a potential public health issue, I think there's a certain responsibility to do the right thing. If you're uncomforable telling the boyfriend, urge the woman to. If she won't, you can warn the boyfriend -- tell him he needs to ask the woman about her health status. He risks catching a life-long disease if he hasn't already, and he risks passing that on to others. Do the right thing.
  • I agree, being in such situations is hard. She needs to tell him, If he "loves her" then he will be ok with her health situations. He will probably be shocked that she has not mentioned anything so far, and may blame you partly because you know and did not warn him. Some people who have herpes, do not do that well in relationships with people who do not have them. But she should, for future reference, tell her boyfriend's before she has sex with them, so they can bale early and not risk any hurting of each others feelings.
  • Obviously she cant like the guy TOO much is she has herpes and didnt tell him and also if she has unprotected sex, leaving herself (and him)open to a possible pregnancy. You need to talk to her and tell her to get her act together or get ready to have the guy leave her or to buy diapers.
  • Your 'sister' friend is behaving very STUPIDLY. She has NO RIGHT sleeping with anyone, with out protection. Her not telling him that she has herpes is IRRESPONSIBLE! What kind of person are you to know of your friends disease and just act like it's nothing? Social diseases can DESTROY peoples lives...there's NO CURE for herpes! TALK to her!
  • I'd give her the chance of telling him and if she doesn't then I'd tell him! He has EVERY right to know!

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