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  • Well, there are many things you can do. Having a boyfriend that is 3 years or so older than you is fine. No one ever said you were going to stay together forever (not in a discouraging way. Just stating both sides :) Look, you've only been dating for 2 months and that doesn't seem like that long considering that if you do end up staying together, you'll be with him for the rest of your life (hopefully). If you are saying that your sexual intercourse is 'fooling around' you already took a stand by saying that you don't want to have sex again until you are 16 years old. (good for you!!!) The next thing you can do is sit down with him and tell him that you don't like the way he is playing with you and you'd rather be ___________ (what you want to change into) You can also ask him WHY he is trying to have sex with you and why isn't he serious about it. That may make him think twice about saying things in front of you. I highly recommend you talking to him because I've heard stories from many other people on how they are being trampled over by their boyfriends and how they wish they had taken a stand rather than going with whatever he says. Good Luck!! Hope this helped. If you don't mind, could you tell me how it ended up? Thanks...
  • Dump him! When I was reading your question this was my train of thought: 15 and 18, ok...dating for two months, ok...Sex, ok...she didn't want to? NOT ok! (red flashing warning lights!!) All he ever wants to do is fool around? Definitely not ok! This guy obviously just wants one thing, and you aren't ready to be a toy. (I hope you never are!) Get rid of him, and find someone with more decency and respect.
  • I Agree with Shelby Me and my boyfriend are 7 years apart, im 16 and hes 23. Its a bit of a gap, but i know that hes not after that one thing by how he treats me. and if you didnt want to have sex with ur boyfriend, he should of atleast asked you first to see how you feel about it, and stopped and respected your answer.
  • He is a scumbag. Guys like that prey on younger girls cuz there easier to sleep with than girls there own age. don't be a fool. don't get involved with something you will really regret and have to explain to future boyfriends.

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