I accidentally came in on my sister sleeping with her best friend in the nude. Should I ask her about her sexuality or wait for her to come out?
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James Larrick
ANSWERS: 7
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It's her business, not yours. Wait for her to talk to you.
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If you are close with your sister, she will come out to you in time. Don't reveal that you saw her intimately with her friend because she may became embarassed or angry.
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No. If she's not gay then you'll embarrass her unecessarily (some women and girls do sleep in the nude with no sexual contact, believe it or not) and if she is then she'll tell you when she's ready. Don't embarrass her anymore than you already have.
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I think you should wait and see if she tells you anything about her sexuality. She may, and she may not. You might be making an unfounded assumption that the sleeping in the nude is sexual. (Nudity is not inherently sexual for everyone.) I'm not sure why you think your sister's sexuality is your business. I certainly don't ask my siblings about their sex life.
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Wait for her to tell you. She'll tell you when she's ready. Just because she hasn't told you doesn't mean she doesn't want you to know. She may just be scared to tell you. I knew my older brother was gay for years, but i waited until he told me to say anything.
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There may be nothing sinister in it whatsoever, or she could be experimenting. A lot of younger people do experiment with people of the same sex. Anyway, does it really matter, and she is your sister. Surely you won't love her anymore or less because of her sexuality.
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I don't think it would be proper or necessary to stick you nose into your sister's business. It's bad enough you got a quick glimpse of nudity. Isn't that enough embarrassment for one lifetime?
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