Im 13 and i want to get a thong but i dont know how to tell my mom. its not like im going to pull it and make it revelaing. i just want one to get rid of panty lines.
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I would put on a piar of pants or skirt and show her the panty line. tell her at your age you are emabrrassed and kids make fun of girls like that. then show her what it would look like with no lines. you can do that by wearing nothing or make your panties into a thong. ouch. maybe if you showed her some magazine pictures or go online and show her its a choice of undergarments, like choosing a strapless bra, or differnt colors. this way she will understand its not a sexy object, but more of a choice of foundations. hope this helps.
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Im a guy so i have no idea how i would tell my mother I was going to wear thongs lol. But i think if she understands what your reasons are for wearing thongs instead of regular underwear and she respects your decisions you should be fine. Just be confident when your telling her why your making this decision, but also its not really her decision what kind of underwear you wear, its a personal thing.
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Just get some money, go to the store and buy one. You Mum doesn't need to know what kind of underwear you're wearing, if any at all.
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You can do it the sneaky way or the honest way. The sneaky way will get you the underwear but will get you in trouble if your mom finds out and the honest way may not get you teh underwear at all. The sneaky way: Get the underwear anyway. It's not like there is an age restriction on thongs. You can just go to the store and buy one. But you will have to keep it hidden The honest way: Tell your mom that you want to get a thong because of the pantylines. It could go either way so there is no guarentee. Also, just throwing this in here but there are also underwear designed to eliminate pantylines without it being a thong. Here is one good example: http://www.barenecessities.com/Jockey_product_JOCKEY1206_,size,.htm
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I know what she means. If my 13 yr. old sister asked me for a thong I would be like WTF who the hell do you have to impress. But I would understand the concept. And eventually I would get over the shock. We're just scared of seeing our little ones grow into women
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I don't know but shouldn't the bond between a mother and daughter be a lot stronger where you can pretty much ask them anything? Have a sit down with her and ask her opinion on thong panties, No doubt she will wonder why you are curious just be honest and tell her your concerns. Chances are at your age your mother is paying for your clothing still. I don't see any reason why she would not make this happen for you because after all under garments are really mainly worn for private reasons at 13 and not for show.
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If your worried about panty lines, there are normal undies that are made from the thinest most softest fabric that doesnt show through your clothes. So if its the panty time thats bottering you I suggest you find those undies. Thongs do get rid of panty lines, BUT then you get (depending on the clothing) some quite obvious thong lines. On a 13 year old, thong lines arnt very attactive, quite the opposite look pretty bad.
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personally....i'm not trying to be a perv or anything,but...have you ever thought of boy shorts.....most of them are lineless...and personally....if i had a daughter and i was a single parent(please no) i would come closer to letting her wear those.... Thongs are sort of on the grose side....and make a girl seem more trashy to an extent....plus another little tid bit of advice....if its valittle about looking older or sexier(hopefully my daughters never let me know they want these), Boy shorts are less trashy and are a whole lot sexier to a guy.....just an option....
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If your mom's anything like mine, she won't care about panty lines. She always told me she saw no need for me to have "floss" and with that graphic description, I never wanted a thong again.
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There are better underwear options to eliminate panty lines... and, quite frankly, better clothing choices. I know this SOUNDS prudish, but I am far from a prude...
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Thongs are uncomfortable! It's like a constant wedgie. I would suggest to talk to your mom about it, she might have some good advice for you.
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Explain it to your mum just like you have here and see what she says.
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Well I don't think there is anything about a thong that your mom could object to. I am trying to think of why you can't ask her for one, the same way you would if you needed a bra
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I think you are a little to young to be wearing thongs,that's jus tmy opinion.Stick with panties that ar emore for yor age.Older women wear them for sex appeal,etc.And your to young to worry about sex appeal in that regard!
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Clearly you don't want to hide things from your mother, afterall she does need to do your laundry. When you are discussing if you have any dirty clothes and nobody is around, just say "Hey mom, i've been thinking and i want to try out wearing a thong undergarment. Would that be okay with you? I feel like experimenting in what i liek to wear, i heard they are comfortable," if worst comes to worst she will be discusted by it and say NEVER!!! But that won't happen, mother's are understanding.
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I absolutley HATE pantylines. They drive me nuts. When I was about your age I decided to start wearing thongs for the same reason. I didn't think my mother would really mind, so I went out and bought my own. When they showed up in the laundry, she asked me about them. I explained and it was no big deal. This worked for me, because my mother didn't think it was a big deal. Your mother might have a different opinion. If you think your mother will be opposed to your choice of undergarment, then you should definately talk to her about it first. Tell her why you want to buy them, and hopefully she will understand. If not, try boyshorts, they can reduce the visibility of panylines. You could also try buying the next size up in pants. Baggier pants will also hide lines. You should be aware that wearing thongs can put you at greater risk for urinary tract infections. They can trasport bacteria from your rectum to your urethra. If you do decide to wear thongs, remember to be extra careful to keep things clean down there. UTIs are no fun at all.
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what i did was i got some money and i went to the mall with my friends and jus got one. i didnt tell my mom bcus she duznt have to know and i dont hav a strong bond with her so i dont care. she didnt ask me what i got from the mall so technically i wasnt lying
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Wear full panties if you are worried about lines. You don't need a thong at 13.
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Why panty lines are sexy. Maybe that explains why I don't like thongs. 13 seems a little young to me anyway. You can always go without underwear for the ultimate in panty line free. I guess you should also know a couple things about thongs--- guys think girls that wear them are much easier (which may or may not be true), and in order for a thong to look good you pretty much need to be a super model so in reality only like maybe 5% of the population have the body to look good in them.
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i think you should just tell her you want them to get rid of panty lines. to prove to her you don't want them because you think they're sexy, don't get any lacy ones, or bizarre colors. start small and simple, like your first bra. you wouldn't get a black lacy bra the first time. same thing with thongs...
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