Get out of the relationship, and find someone who IS. That would be a huge blow to the self-esteem.

Find someone else, sorry.

I would be absolutely crushed and then I would get pissed enough to do real damage. I would then collect myself, get rid of him and go on as though he never even mattered.

I guess I wouldn't be having sex with him anymore. We could still be friends.

There's no shortage of single people out there looking for love. Find someone else.

First of all I'd probably try and find out why. It might be something legitimate (like "you seem more interested in work than me and it's a real turn off." or "you've become slobby and scruffy since you lost your job and it's really off-putting." or just "you could really stand to wash a bit more often!")- in some cases a partner might point out something that's actually making you unhappy as well, and solving it would be a good thing for both of you - I've known women whose partners have gently mentioned to them that they've let their looks go slightly since getting settled, who've gone out and got themselves a haircut or lost a few pounds and found new vigour for themselves. Not saying you should put up with someone who expects you to look like a supermodel 24/7, but sometimes you do need to make a bit of an effort in a long term relationship to show that you still care. So if it seemed like something reasonable, solvable and that I thought was a fair comment I might try and do something about it, see how we could revive the sex a bit, particularly if it was a long term relationship with someone I really cared about. If they didn't seem willing to give it a go, or if they were cruel in their criticisms, or I didn't think the relationship was worth saving, then I'd probably just say "Fine." and hope to go find someone who felt differently. It is always worth looking into the whys and wherefores though.

I'm married with kids, so it would be pretty hard for me to just up and move on. Personally, I'd ask her to go to counseling with me. We have enough history that we should be able to fix this. If we can't, I honestly don't know what I would do. I'm the type that needs constant reinforcement though (one of the drawbacks of being a 90's sensitive male in the new millennium), so I would probably hit the gym and try to get back down to around 165 lbs. If you're not married and no kids are involved, then I would follow the advice of the others who've answered and get the hell out of Dodge. Good luck and be well.

Trade himj in for a new one.

Well i would get out! but it was other way around for me...i had to admit to my ex thats how i felt so i did the decent thing and let him go :D

i know what your feeling unless this is hypothetical. last night when we were having sex he couldnt get back hard to go another round i felt horrible idk it was not funn at all

Well then make yourself sexually attractive to them again.