Do you think that its possible for someone to truly be able to fully get there point across when their yelling or talking in a rood manner, or to make sense to the other person?
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From past experience, while or after someone was yelling, i thought to myself, "if only they could put the shoe on the other foot and see that when their talking that way, it can create a fearful environment which makes it harder for the other person to comprehend what there saying, or have the drive to respond, or really hear them at all. It probably makes it harder for the person(the one yelling) also, because it excerts negative energy. -i'm sure it depends on the person being yelled at, but i have noticed this and think it may be a general thing
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No, I don't suppose it will work. When someone is yelling at you, your first reaction is to be on the defensive right? So what they are saying is probably not going to get through. As far as being rude, sometimes it does, but most of the time it doesn't work. People just get offended, and defensive and won't listen to a thing you're saying, even if that person is in the wrong.
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When you yell or be rude or disrespectful, swear, then you make the other person tune out. Usually they think you are out of control and so they don't have to take what you say seriously. And often even if you wanted to listen to a yelling person, you can't understand them because you can't hear clearly. Someday, try getting softer in your conversation and see people lean forward and strain to hear you. That is the sign of a good speaker, a communicator, one who varies his pitch and pace.
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I think most people tune you out if you are yelling or using rude language. I know I raise my voice, not yelling, because I am passionate about something, and I see the person I'm talking to close their eyes or look away as if they are ignoring me.
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