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.. sorry.. i accidently pushed submit twice... But for this one i'll just say GOOD LUCK. HOPE ALL WORKS OUT.
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You are just going to have to remember that being cheated on can really hurt a person, it is going to stay with him for a long time. You are just going to have to be patient and think of his feelings Always make sure he is secure, Allow him to call you at anytime Let him question you, and answer him openly to show him that you have nothing to hide from him. Tell him of your day, and let him meet all of your guy friends, And let him no that there is nothing going on he "might" eventually get over this uncertainty if you show him that you only love him, and nobody else.
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This is a serious problem. I would suggest you postpone any wedding until after you have both been for couple counselling. If you think this is bad now...wait until after you're married! He needs professional help to separate what happened with his wife from his relationship with you.
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He is tarring you with his ex wifes brush,i would be most offended if my husband/partner kept accusing me of things i havnt done,he needs to grow up and get rid of his insecurity and i would hold off marrying him until he does as things wont be any better just because you marry him.
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Oh my. My ex was exactly like that and, unfortunately, it only gets worse unless he gets any kind of therapy to deal with it. You will never be able to change that behavior--he has to be the one to address the issue. I truly feel you need to postpone the wedding until he works it through. Marriage WILL NOT change the behavior!!! My ex used our marriage to his advange (You're MY WIFE, you can't talk to so-and so or go here or there. You must OBEY!). He finally got the help he needed (therapy) after going through several girlfriends and he's now in a much happier marriage. Blessings to you both and the wish that everything works out.
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You need to move on, i.e., get out of this relationship. No matter what he says, it's only going to get worse. He no longer trusts women and you will be questioned on your every move when he's not around. That will probably include several checking-on-you phone calls during the day, which could be a problem at your place of employment - and that's the mild part. Dump him, now!
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I would not be marrying a man who has no trust in me
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I don't think your boyfriend took enough time to get over what happened with his wife, before getting into a new relationship. You certainly should not marry him with this behaviour...in fact, I would reconsider your relationship all together. He is obviously still hung up on another woman.
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