My gf and i have been dating for close to 15 months.she's 16 and i'm 17. im soo in love with her and would like a serious relationship. are we too young for one? if so,do u think its possible for us to b together 5yrs from now and then b in one?
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You guys are fine and yes, some people do marry their high-school sweethearts and live happily ever after.
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well, if you guys feel that you really are in love, who reall cares about the age, I dont think you are too young if you really love each other..
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how do you know what love is you are only 17. Grow up a little, live life, dont chain yourself down now. If she loves you she will wait. no big rush on getting married. why not ask this board how many people got in serious relation ships when they were young and regret it?
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you sound mature, so i would say YES
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Yes you are too young for a serious relationship. The chances of your having a relationship that lasts is pretty slim but not impossible.
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I would say wait just another 5 years or so, or until you finish college. If you guys are still together then, great! If you aren't, well... You see, you have many boyfriends and girlfriends in middle school and high school, and you might unfortunetly break up with her. If you get married now then she might divorce you once you get married, because she could still be in the getboyfriend/dump boyfriend stage, and your child could end up having no father. Think about him/her.
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Save the serious for when you can do something about it like get married. Be best friends, practice being loyal to one another. Get to know each other in different ways, through all sorts of trials. Talk about things, discuss future plans, goals in life, how you each feel about children, religion, jobs, where you live, your relatives, all sorts of things. My husband and I met when I was 14 and he was almost 19. I wanted to be sure about things. We waited till I was 18 before we got married but we knew so much about each other. We had great fun before marriage, had great adventures. We talked about the future and what we bothl iked and disliked and wee solidly best friends before marriage. That made for a very strong relationship which HAS stood the test of time, over 34 years. We don't regret being patient and making sure. It was just a part of the relationship.
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I met the person who has been my wife for almost 40 years when we were the same age as you two are. Neither of us has ever had other partners and we are happy with each other - that doesn't mean we never disagree or have arguments, because we do. However, of all of the couples we knew when we first met I only know one other couple that is still together from that age, so the norm is for teen relationships not to last. But I also know of many failed relationships when the people concerned were in their 20s, 30s and 40s when they met. If you both want to be together go for it and I wish you luck and joy with each other. Just remember that you have to work at relationships and make allowances for differences of opinion. Sorry to go on :)
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Only time will tell.
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yes dear you look mature so what i can tell you is if you love each other you must wait and prepare your self to be more responsible and have your owne mony .and i suggest to give her a promise to don't leave her ,and she too must give you a promise to don' leave u so good luck and enjoy your live
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Well i think that ppl our age should just go and have fun..and not always be in a committed relationship cuz i mean we're gonna be married the rest of our lives! and that s what a teacher told me so...lol
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THIS IS MY FULL LIFE WITH TRUST AND HONESTY
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Yesterday was what it was. Today you live to your best. Tomorrow will come.
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No you to can be in love and possible sounds like you are and i've always been told the person you date fora long time is the person you are most likely to marry and i'm saying you are gonna be getting married time soon but it is a possibilty....
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No you to can be in love and possible sounds like you are and i've always been told the person you date fora long time is the person you are most likely to marry and i'm saying you are gonna be getting married time soon but it is a possibilty....
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well i guess it depends because sometimes it can be lust. My boyfriend and i have been together ever since i was 15 and we are still together and very much in love and i am now engaged to him at the age of 19.
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well i guess it depends because sometimes it can be lust. My boyfriend and i have been together ever since i was 15 and we are still together and very much in love and i am now engaged to him at the age of 19.
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what is a serious relationship?? From what I see your already in one. My idea of a serious relationship is where you are together for a long time and really like each oter and feel as though your in love dont rush things, is my advice, if things feel perfect now then dont push them any further
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First of all,I would like to say that no one is too young to be in a serious relationship.But it is difficult to be sure whether it is serious or not at teenage years.I respect every couple who love each other no matter how old they are.If you two are %100(not %90) sure that you love each other,than of course,it is certainly possible to be in a serious relationship when you are together for 5 years.I wish you all the happiness in your relationship.
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16 and 17 years old are wonderful years, full of experimentation and experiences. Enjoy them. You will notice that as the years come and go your concept of love will change and mature. 16 and 17 year old love is wonderful. However, it changes. It gets better at 20, 25, 30, 35, and all through your life.
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