ANSWERS: 10
  • Only if you're looking for reasons to be upset (which is something I'm convinced females do and don't understand). I don't see why you'd need to be together every second of every day. If you didn't ask him to stay with you then he probably figured you were cool with it and didn't wanna go hiking.
  • Why would you want to go camping with your b/f and two other guys? You knew you'd be ignored for SOME period of time.
  • make him go shopping with you for personal hygiene products...
  • Whose idea was it to go camping? If it was just supposed to be you and him- then be upset. If they decided to all three go and he asked you to come along, while you can be upset, that most likely would have been a guys day camping and your boyfriend wanted you to come along so he could spend time with you BUT thats not how it worked out, so I would talk to him about it.
  • You kind of sound like the odd one out just by virtue of being the only female on the trip. It would have been nice if your boyfriend had stayed with you, but did he know you wanted him to? Did any of you work out the details of who was doing what? In the scheme of a relationship, this is a small thing and I'd bet it won't bother you after a while. Incidentally, as someone who camps often, I find there's a code of respect for other campers' things. I've never once had anything disappear from our site. Maybe next time, you all take the hike together.
  • i think u should dump him and date me
  • I think that is what happens when you are the only girl in an all guy trip. Next time don't go or make sure there are other girls going.
  • Next time don't go unless their are other girls to hang with.
  • You should be upset, but just a little; they were inconsiderate in taking you for granted that way - you were just as much a member of the camping 'team' and were not there to be their skivvy. This is a situation that calls for a little assertiveness. If you don't want to stay alone (and probably being bored and lonely), you should speak up when the arrangements are being made to go hiking. What should you do? Speak to your boyfriend about it and ask him not to take you for granted and make assumptions about what you want like this again. Could they have not locked their stuff in the car/truck if they were so worried about it? What would they have done if you hadn't been there? Next time you go camping with more than just your BF, make it clear that you want to participate in all the activities, assuming that you do and that if you can't, you might just as well stay home and enjoy yourself there. And mean it!
  • I hope you brought a book!

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