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by Snooz on April 15th, 2007

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My girlfriend made out with 2 of my friends , before we where dating . I new about it , and still decided to date her , why can I forget that ever happen , It's ruining the relationship because of me , If anyone can give me any adv

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  • by Yoooooouuuu on November 1st, 2007

    Yoooooouuuu

    Follow your gut. If you feel tentative then maybe you should try to talk it out or take a step back?

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  • by stinssd on April 15th, 2007

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    Friend, look at the situation objectively. You love her so you want to forgive her. But, is she ready to be forgiven? Stop hurting yourself. Do the right thing, even though it's hard. Give yourself permission to break up with her if she's not willing to be forgiven.

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  • by Soniq on April 15th, 2007

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    I'd just take a step back, and realize that yeah, she made out with two of your friends, and that can be hard to push from your mind, however...look who she's with now. She chose you over those two people, that in itself should be enough to make you realize that she's more into you...I wouldn't let something like that come between you two.

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  • by buxtonite ..slowly losing my mind on November 2nd, 2007

    buxtonite ..slowly losing my mind

    simple ...because your JEALOUS and that my friend is the beginning of the end for any relationship and will be for ANY future relationship you ever have ... unless you stop it and stop it NOW .... and whats worse is it happened before you were even going out with this girl and to top it of you bloody well knew ...mate thats not good at all so do the right thing and snap out of it ...you won she's going out with you so whats the problem ...can't be the other blokes because they lost!

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  • by Bride2B on November 1st, 2007

    Bride2B

    you were aware of it, so you knew that it wont be easy. still you liked her enough to give it a chance. know its not easy but just try to make it work. she chose YOU, if she wanted to be with one of them she would've. Think about it like this - she kissed them, but she kisses you and loves you and is YOUR girlfriend. Dont give up, and think of the positive stuff!

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  • by Marisol on March 3rd, 2010

    Marisol

    I could give you advice. Even thinking of the fact that she kissed someone before you started dating her is a sign of mental illness, go seek psychiatric help. You will never have a normal relationship with anyone else other than a blow up doll until you do.

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