ANSWERS: 27
  • No. Guys care how the girl is. Her personality, her attitude, her intelligence. However some of us get blinded by their physical attraction.
  • Personally, I have dated petite as well as a little chubby, as long as you keep yourself presentable, fresh (good hygiene) and have a bit of sexiness about you, you are good.
  • I think most men if they are health conscious themselves would be somewhat to quite bothered by their spouse or girlfriend being obese, yes. If they themselves are overweight, it is probably less of an issue with them. It also depends on what you mean by care and weight. I would care if my girlfriend was starving herself to death and underweight, and I would also care if she were obese and eating herself into poor health. A few men might say it does not matter, for various reasons. But I think to most men, it is a consideration - more for some than for others.
  • it all depends on the guy. if its a shallow horny teenager, then definitely (unless hes one of those "more cushion for the pushin" type guys). if hes not shallow and u've known him for awhile and ur friends, then he shudnt.
  • well I can personally answer this question from experience. Yes guys really do care about a girls weight. I gained weight after I got married and now my husband ignors me. when we were dating he opened doors and was very attentive towards me now that I have gained weight he doesnt even notices or cares about me.
  • well ... i can't speak for al men but i'm happy with whatever i get
  • Depends on the person. I'm not physically attracted to people who "bigger". I don't think that they are less of a person, but I'm not going to go out with someone that I'm not physically attracted too.
  • depends on if he's a fireman:0
  • I think they probably care as much as a woman does. If a woman gains weight when she's pregnant give her a break she is carrying a baby! Her body will probably never be the same as it was but it can get pretty close if it is really important to her.
  • Only if she sits in a certain place...
  • Not as much as they do.
  • I have always loved big-bone girls with a big round ass. That's just me.
  • Some guys do and some don't. There actually some guys who prefer some weight. Everyone is entitled to their own personal preference. I personally do not like extra weight on a girl.
  • No ... guys dont give a shit about the actual weight of a woman. What they care about is how she looks --- a heavier woman with the right build and curves is far sexier than a lighter women. Above is applicable to about 90% of men. Some men just like skinny women, or fat women, but most men fall into the 'proportion is what matters' category.
  • yes and no I have no problem with 5 or 10 lbs gained, it happens, but I don't think I could fall in love with someone who was 200 or 300 lbs overweight, looks aren't everything but they are part of attraction and not that it applies to everyone who is obese but to me it just says something about a person's priorities and lifestyle that would just not match with my own.
  • I do not care much. Anyway I do not like girls and women who are thin. I prefer those who are well padded and who are just a little bit sturdy.
  • Don't care what they weigh, as long as they are somewhat in shape. I generally like petite women however.
  • I do for several reasons, not the least of them is health... thinner is also more attractive (until it goes overboard) and easier to throw around the dance floor or out of harms way. don't get me wrong, I am not a macho man, if a chick has the martial arts skill to kick my ass that is freakin awesome... I just do not want her to be able to do it by brute force.
  • it seems that while guys don't care about actual numbers, they DO like a certain type of body - in my whole life I've only met ONE man who said he actually liked fat women - not chubby or gigantically obese, but "fat" is what he called them men are very visually stimulated, so their partners appearance means a lot, it seems
  • why, are you fat
  • most do, i do, i loathe fat people, unless they have a medical condition which is EXTREMELY rare. how can you respect a fat lazy beast, of course, you can't
  • I have alot of over weight friends, but I would not marry any of them.
  • Only when she's on top and I'm having trouble breathing. <gasp>
  • If women and girls still stay in a good and sporty shape I do not care at all about a few KGs more.
  • Some do, some don't.

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