Im not sure if a girl likes me, shes pretty and intelligent, she acted as a friend for a wile now and now she seems less interested now that she knows i like her more then that, is she playing hard to get or just not interested?
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Crazed_Wiseman
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It is possible that she actually liked you as a friend, and that, perhaps, she liked the idea that you treated her as a person and not a potential girlfriend. Talk to her. She may be disappointed that you are showing the 'wrong' sort of interest in her. It is also possible that she does like you, and tried to get that across before, but you acted as a friend only and now she has given up and is missing all your signals too. We can speculate for a long time over your motives and her motives, etc., but the best thing for you to do is to talk to her. Try and find a neutral place, and say, what you have in your question. She may not be able to give you an answer that completely satisfies you on the spot though. An alternative is to write to her. Say clearly what you think, that you both were friends, and how that may have changed for you, and you are confused about her signals??? The bottom line (I love that cliche) is ASK HER...that is really the only way you are going to ever find out.
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My girl was just the same. You have to act on it before it's to late.
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Most likely not interested. Push the envelope a little, ask some personal questions like about her love life...see how she responds.
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i'd go with the other answers, ask her ... it is possible that she's also just not interested the way you are ...
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Just let it sink in and come back in a few days and ask her how she feels about it. It might also help if you tell her that you'll respect her decision whether she says yes or no.
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