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  • well, how old are you?
  • Don't you think it's nicer looking forward to seeing her whislt still having your own space. Sure I agree it's unfair and also pretty wrong. At least this way you can cherish the time you have together!
  • I think limiting it might be good for you, if you are still in full time education. Your studies are important and there will be plenty of time to be with her in your life. Wouldn't it be better if you could have a good job as well? My best friend had a bit of an issue with that. He was seeing his girlfriend every night for hours and hours. It was lucky it started in the summer because it would have really messed his studies up. He barely saw his friends any more and I think he fell out with his family when he was told they thought it was too much. I supported him, because as I said he's my best friend, but in truth I was really worrying about him. I think he was putting too much pressure on himself with it. He seems to have found a good balance lately though, so I think it's turning out alright. You need to see it from your mother's point of view. She cares about you a lot and doesn't want to see you throw away your chances. I think you should talk to her and try to get her to extend the time to something you find a bit more comfortable. However, if she's worried, there may be good reason so it might be a good idea to cut down the time you spend with your GF.
  • Adjust the clocks around the house and try to outsmart the old folks remember YOU got the power and are gonna' pick their retirement homes in the future so they better start kissin your butt
  • Supply and demand. Your mom is limiting your supply by not letting you see your gf too much, which makes your demand go up. Your girlfriend will want you more because she cannot have you often. Your mom is doing you a favor.
  • I don't think that is really fair... but since you cannot do much about the situation, you gotta enjoy your time together. Do something memorable on your time together... and you still can chat with her through the internet or txt messages, can't ya?
  • Just tell your mom that your study and other chores won't be affected if you see your gf more often. And then stick to your word.
  • um no your not the only one. your mom has no business in your love life. you need to make sure she knows that being your personal cupid is not in the mom's job description! (not as rude as that though lol)
  • Is there a reason you mom said this? Are you grades slipping? Are you putting off work or chores to be with her? My guess is mom does not what you to have enough time to make love so she gives you time limits, if it is not for the reasons above. Ask your mom why she does not want you to see your girl more, she may have some valid reasons. Either way you can talk to her about her reasoning so that she may change her mind on the matter.
  • It depends. How old are you?

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